Jules6186 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 My boyfriend and I broke up just under two weeks ago. I was ok with it bc he said he needed to work on himself. He's unhappy with life outside of me and has been for a while so I tried to be supportive and understand. Three days after the break up we hung out due to a group event and he was perfect, everything he wasn't during the relationship that I had hoped he would be. He told me he still loved me and that he wasn't sure the break up was the right decision.... I go away for the weekend and I come back to find he's already shacked up with our coworker!! Four days later! He apparently hasn't spent a night at his own home in four days. His friends told him the decent and not cowardly thing was to talk to me and at least tell me about it. He didn't, he made our friend tell me everything. He says he's enamored of this girl when three weeks ago he told me he thought she was a young, silly, immature child. What I don't get? She's moving away in September! Now I have to work with them and watch it happen on Saturday. I want to say something to them so badly. He has treated me less than human when he knows and has admitted to others I was amazing to him. What do I do? How do I face them? How could he give me hope and then throw me away like that? So easily? We went through a lot together, lost a baby together. Now I feel that I am nothing but trash to him and I didn't even deserve the decency of a conversation. I just want him to hear my side! What do I do? I don't know how to survive this. I don't know if I can carry on anymore...I feel like I'm falling apart. Please, help!
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Well first off his friends were wrong, he owes you nothing really. You are broken up and his choices are his own business. He was either already hot for her, flirting with her, or cheating with her before you guys broke up. When she moves away don't be surprised if he tries to come back to you. Realize that you're not trash, he is. Cut all contact with him and focus on yourself and your own happiness. The only direction to go right now is forward, so join a club, find new hobbies, find happiness within, and move on with your life.
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