Pisces13 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Wow, just wow. After over 4 weeks of NC (and 3 weeks prior to that), my ex texts me out of the blue this morning asking how I was. I ignored the text, and then she just sent me another text this evening asking if I was pissed off at her or something. I didn't really want to, but I replied basically explaining how it's a bad idea for us to be in contact, that I'm trying to move forward etc. I wasn't rude about it, I was concise and to the point, finishing with "I hope you understand". My oh my, the response I got back... she just started ripping in to me about ignoring her text, this regardless of the fact the last text I sent her over 4 weeks ago she took over 9 hours to respond to, and avoided my question all together. She then went on about how she does still love me, and she does want to be with me, but that I'M the one who keeps changing MY mind... are you freaking kidding me!? Now keep in mind she broke up with me, and has told me twice since the breakup in March that she doesn't want to see me anymore, but has come crawling back. She has told me numerous times since then that she "isn't in love with me" as well, and she hasn't shown any interest in getting back together with me in that time either. The nerve of this girl hey!
Author Pisces13 Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 Oh I'm done with it. She is way too immature for me. I've been seeing someone else the last few weeks anyway who is so much better, I'm not going to ruin that on some one as immature and delusional as my ex. 1
HobGadling Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 You were polite and respectful when she contacted you. She had no right to let rip on you. I am not a fan of no contact. But in this instance it is justified. Breaks up with you. Plays games. Reacts angrily even though you were polite, honest, and direct. This is what NC is for. 1
TigerCub Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 I say ignore her for sure! It will help you continue on your path to healing and moving on AND as an added bonus It will piss her OFF! If she was pissed that you took a lil while to write her back - imagine what completely ignoring her is gonna do. I think you should also just block number altogether, because even if you're not writing her back, every time she contacts you, it still brings her to mind and gets your emotions going. 3
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