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Why does he send mix signals?


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Hi everyone,

 

I will try to make my long story short. I met a really nice men 2 months ago on holiday.He lives 9 hours drive from me. Now we have chat contact, and at first he suggested he could come to me. But at that time I had to work a lot so I suggested another date we could see eachother. But when I suggested going to his place he seemed to avoid that cause he did not answer the question when I did a serious attempt to book a ticket to him.A few days later he suggested going on holiday together, so I said yes it would be very nice! He said he would let me know in one week if he could go or not, cause he wasen't sure... Then days passed by and we talked on chat sometimes but he did not came back on the holiday plans, so I thought he did not wanted to go anymore. Now it's weeks later and still we talk on chat and I did another attempt to book a ticket to his place and his response to that was asking me if I can call him and I did but he said on the phone that he could not call at the moment cause he was with a friend at the hospital. A few days later I asked him online how he is doing but he didn't answer yet. Why does he give me his phone number although i did not ask for it and asked me to call him? If he is not interested in seeing me again he would not aks me to call him right? Why is he so unclear to me about when we can see eachother again and why is he holding back when I make serious plans to book a ticket? It's a grown up men, he was very polite and friendy, spended a lot days with me on the holiday,we talked and laughed a lot. As far as I know and I believe him, he has no gf or is not seeing anyone. He sends me sweet messages but is he just playing with me? Now I almost gave up on him cause he seems to avoid me coming to his place and I am beginning to think he just does not wants to see me. But he gives me mixed signals so that's why I don't understand what he wants...

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Agree with above post... He isn't single he lives with a woman he is in a relationship with. Move on.

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