kiey Posted February 12, 1999 Posted February 12, 1999 I have a problem with my boyfriend. He doesn't seem to put as much effort into our relationship as I do. This week I've been sick with the flu. I've seen him for approximately an hour all together. Every time he's sick, I never leave his side, unless something comes up thats school or work related. I know this is probably petty, but to me the little things matter the most. Today was my first day back to school, and while we were in the computer lab together, he made it very clear to me that he didn't want me around. I don't know if it's just me or not, but he makes me feel estranged when we're out in public together. I said that I wouldn't put as much effort into the relationship, and see how it goes, but is this the only way?
oreo8 Posted February 15, 1999 Posted February 15, 1999 I have a problem with my boyfriend. He doesn't seem to put as much effort into our relationship as I do. This week I've been sick with the flu. I've seen him for approximately an hour all together. Every time he's sick, I never leave his side, unless something comes up thats school or work related. I know this is probably petty, but to me the little things matter the most. Today was my first day back to school, and while we were in the computer lab together, he made it very clear to me that he didn't want me around. I don't know if it's just me or not, but he makes me feel estranged when we're out in public together. I said that I wouldn't put as much effort into the relationship, and see how it goes, but is this the only way? Girl let me tell you, you should just not even aknowledge his presence for a while or just not be so, or act into the relationship. And that would help you find out if he is loosing interest. if he is not well he might just find out what he is missing.
broken_heart Posted February 21, 1999 Posted February 21, 1999 hi kiey, you have really a problem with your boyfriend. but i think you should really react now as he does. just don't be so nice as you have been until now, although the things you do are really sweet. you will see if he wants to get rid of you or if he loves you. (sorry if this was a little bit hard). have you talked to him about it? don't know if this could help, but maybe. i had this problem myself and i just hope for you that it doesn't turn out the way like it has done between me and my x. wish you luck and that it will get better. Girl let me tell you, you should just not even aknowledge his presence for a while or just not be so, or act into the relationship. And that would help you find out if he is loosing interest. if he is not well he might just find out what he is missing.
Thiamine Posted March 16, 1999 Posted March 16, 1999 I have a problem with my boyfriend. He doesn't seem to put as much effort into our relationship as I do. This week I've been sick with the flu. I've seen him for approximately an hour all together. Every time he's sick, I never leave his side, unless something comes up thats school or work related. I know this is probably petty, but to me the little things matter the most. Today was my first day back to school, and while we were in the computer lab together, he made it very clear to me that he didn't want me around. I don't know if it's just me or not, but he makes me feel estranged when we're out in public together. I said that I wouldn't put as much effort into the relationship, and see how it goes, but is this the only way? Dump him. He's not worth your caring disposition and if he won't give anything to the relationship, why be in it? There are many guys far more worthy than this guy...best wishes! Love, Thiamine
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