boxbuddy Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 This may be longer than I expected but I'll give it a go.. I'm currently broken up with my formal ex boyfriend for 4 months now, this story is probably one of the most complicated messed up thing I probably seen or went through in my whole entire life.. My ex boyfriend and me were together for two in a half years, we loved each other deeply. I grew up having a huge crush on him at a young age.. Little did he know, so basically this guy has been in my head for a long time. I found out I was pregnant back in Feb, the day I found out I was pregnant his best friend hung himself. Yes, it was hard. I only went to the hospital because I had pnemonuia little did I know I was pregnant. Well I had a miscarriage right around the time after his best friends funeral.. We fought a lot, I went crazy and I lost my mind. I was four months pregnant and if I carried with Pnemonuia i would of died.. I got hooked on pills and i wanted to kill myself. He broke up with me and I went down hill after that .Anyways, we broke up the whole ordeal.. I was a mess and i left to new York for two months with one of my good friends. She took me under her wing, i came back home for him about two months ago... He already seen someone else a rebound they didn't work out, at all. I knew she wasn't going to stick around with that being said.. I started talking to him and we were friends and it was really nice. Till he kissed me, ran away from me than a month after that i said i wanted to be friends. Which went really well, till the night we had sex about a week in a half ago. He ran, he wouldn't reply i freaked out at him and i kept saying he used me. He said he didn't use me and that it wasn't the same, he always looks at me whenever he passes me by or sees me. (Not very often). I tried, talking to his family which all believe i had an abortion which was a lie, they will not speak to me. I was so close, with everyone. I can't give up we always wind up finding each other in the end. So really my question is how do you make someone actually miss you to the pieces. He made a huge mistake, he changed a great amount I am not very pleased at all with his actions. He acts like he cares in person but honestly in texts he says hes to lazy or he doesn't feel like talking. So i dropped the conversations and everything, so what do i do? He is the love of my life, I am so lost and in complete. Help? :/
RogerWallace111 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Hard for me to follow exactly what's going on... But it sounds like after the initial traumatic series of events (which I must say were horribly timed and I'm sorry you had to go through)- you became addicted to pills, he broke up with you, you went a way for a while- then came back to a complicated situation with him. After that, from what you've said, it's pretty hard to determine what's going on... Are you off pills completely ? Either way, it seems he's looking at you in a different light, but if you're still using that would be the pretty clear explanation. Otherwise his feelings may have just changes. Time apart and big life shifts can change the way you look at any and everyone in your life. Just curious, how old are you ? Give some more details... The fact that the struggles of your relationship resulted at least initially from events that you couldn't control makes it's more hopeful than a situation in which there were real irreconcilable differences/incompatibilities. Speculating here, but I think that if you both were to have yourselves a bit more figured out (definitely no more drug addiction), and honestly/openly approached rebuilding your relationship, it could easily work again.
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