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Well I have seen the term "Breadcrumbs" used quite a bit on the site. And I would like to know what it exactly pertains to.

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Breadcrumbs are messages that your ex sends you that are meaningless (and do not mean they want to get back together.)

 

Such things include but are not limited to:

Hey

I miss you

What're you up to

How've you been

Are you seeing anybody?

I made a mistake

You are the best thing that's happened to me

 

 

 

Though the person who sends them does NOT KNOW what they are doing - they are subconsciously sending these messages in order to get a reply from you to validate and inflate their ego.

 

By replying, you sign power over to them and let them know you are still hung up on them, still at their beck and call, and still care enough to reply.

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Is it breadcrumbs still if they want to meet in person?

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Why is "I made a mistake" a breadcrumb? Because they may not be genuine about wanting to get back together? Why would *anyone* say it unless they wanted to reverse their decision!!!!

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Admitting that they made a mistake doesn't always mean that they care to get back together.

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