Don't Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 It has been 7 months since me and my ex broke up and I have been cooping ok like keeping myself busy,getting to know new people, dated a couple people so far, which didn't work out unfortunately since one of them just wanted to be friends and use me for doing her favours and the other one was not a relationship material, so she found someone else after 2 weeks of dating. Recently I've been feeling lonely, waking up with anxiety, sick stomach almost every morning. I am getting old (28) and people around my age have already found someone steady. It just sucks when I am home alone. Btw I live by myself which I like but I feel bored, depressed and lonely sometimes. I have tried to contact my ex but of course no luck. She blocked me and told me she doesn't want to do anything with me even though I was really nice to her throughout our relationship. She basically got tired of being with me. Anyway, I just wanted share my thoughts. Have a good evening everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Myab23 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I feel terrible for you . I know you say your getting old, but 28 is not old AT ALL!! I am 30 years old and married and sometimes I wish for my single years. Like they say the grass is always greener. Just look at this as time to be with yourself. Go out with friends, take a vacation, party!! Learn a language, go to the gym, get online and date! You dont have anyone to answer to or hold you back.You have the world in front of you. Don't let a girl who obviously is finished with your relationship control your happiness. You have your whole life to be in a relationship. Your next relationship is probably right around the corner so take this time for yourself. I know when you don't have a significant other it seems to be the focus. But live your life while you are young and don't worry about anyone but yourself. Because in the end that's all you have to make yourself happy. I know this is very generic advice but I really believe that if you get out there this girl will become nothing but a memory, although I don't know how serious of a relationship this was. And who knows the less you show her you give a ****, she may start to come around. But I wouldn't take her back at this point. Do you! Have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Nicoleiia Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I know how you feel. It is SO hard to move on meanwhile our exes are gone living their lives. And they are "so happy" without us. But we will all get through it. Keep yourself occupied, stay NC and do the best you can. The after effects of a break up are so devastating, its hard to function sometimes, but you have to move forward in life. Link to post Share on other sites
Roflsaurus Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 To be honest no one can love you until you love yourself, as soon as my attitude towards life changed, so did everyone else's attitude towards me. Really take the time to get to know yourself! and one day you may wake up smiling. Link to post Share on other sites
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