sn0rlax Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 (edited) Hey everybody so me and my ex broke up about a week ago both 23. We have been dating for about 6 months now. We broke up not because of how we didn't love each other or anything crazy. We were great and we loved being around each other and said I love you daily. She moved about 2 weeks ago and wanted to make the LDR work but I was so pessimistic about it not working. IMO she moved for no reason. She moved 16oo miles away to live in a tacoma when I live in tucson. She doesn't like arizona and the reason she left was to visit new places. She told me this in the beginning of the relationship. She told me about 3 weeks before she was going to move that she was ready to ship out since she finished getting her nursing degree. I tried being supportive but its really hard when you feel like there leaving you. She left for no reason. She had no job or place to stay except her sisters place and just wanted to move. I broke up with her two days before she broke up with meafter a week of LDR but I decided I would try and work things out. She barely talked to me during the next couple of days missing our skype dates because i work from 4am to 6pm I dont have a lot of time to talk, I was of course upset she couldn't take time from her non busy vacation life. She always sent me pics about how great and wish you were here, and I love it here so I could feel her staying there. She got mad at me for not responding when she missed our date and wanted to break up. I told her to do it and she did. I was frustrated and called her to say I would like to be friends and she agreed and then started talking about how it would be good to meet new people. I freaked when I heard this and got pretty emotional. I told her I thought we had something more and that was a petty reason to break up and hung up. Now I decided to have no contact erase everything. It was going well I haven't really got too sad, but she texted me today 5 days after the break up saying my full name I am really sorry i never meant to hurt you . I've had such a great time with you, take care. I don't know the reason she would do this if she broke up. It seems dumb to talk to the person you broke up with. I don't want to text since I still have some feelings but at the same time want to have her back. Any advice she was my first so that could be why I care so much. Edited July 25, 2013 by sn0rlax info
Chi townD Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 She only sent that text because she feels guilty. She sent it to try and ease her guilt. The text wasn't about you, it was about her. Don't respond.
Author sn0rlax Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 If you think thats the best option then I suppose you know better then myself so I will follow it
NiceFails Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 That's what they say before they consider dating new guys.
Author sn0rlax Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 Yea I thought thats what was happening so I guess its best to just not say anything. Its not easy and stinks but I'll get over it thanks guys
Balzac Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Six months at age 23, knowing she was finishing her BSN, it was a good run. The time has come for you to find your next nursing student!
Author sn0rlax Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 It was only an associates but yea i appreciate the support otherwise I would have texted something dumb like "thanks you too"
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