Panther Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 A lot of my story is told on the FORCED NO CONTACT thread. I have been doing very well, and have had absolutley NO CONTACT with my Ex now forover thre weeks. This is good considering we broke up and there was major dramas every other week or so until then. Last night I was workign at the club I work at. My Ex is not allowed in the club because of soem of the stunts she pulled after we broke up. She has a new boyfriend, and his crew hangs out at my club where I DJ at. I was not aware of that until last night. I was talking to a friend when this one guy comes up and starts talking to my friend. I introduce myself, and he looks me up and down, and says "Oh Yeah, You Hate one of my Friends" and smirks. I am befuddled at this moment and reply that I hate No One, and am suprised by his comment. He says soemthing under hsi breath and walks away. Our mutual aquaintance goes on topt ell me that I was in the Club and gave my Ex's new Beau a dirty look, and that is ther wproblem with me. The funny part is this. Ijknew my Ex was dating soemoen else already, but I have had no clue who he is or even what he looks like. My mutual friend tries to etell the guys name, his occupation,a nd tells me the guy is as messed up as my Ex is,a nd that is why they are operfect for eachother. I stop him and tell him that I don't want to knopw anything about her, or her new guy. I told him that I am happy for her, and I wish them the best of luck, but I don't want to knowanythign about him or her. My Friend persists in trying to tell me stuff, and I finally shut him down. I tell him this.."Listen.... I don't dislike him, nor do I like him, I am indifferent to him. I wish him luck in there relatiosship, and that I harbour no ill will towards either of them, or any of there friends." I could care less one way or another about him. Why is it people think that there has to be sides. Why do I sudenly have a new enemy? It is not my style to give a guy dirty looks who is datign an ex of mine. Yet I find I am beign accused of this, event hough I have no clue who this guy is... Why can't people be adult and just move on. Last April, an aquaintance of mine met an Ex of mien from a few years ago. He actually asked me permission to date her, cause he didn't want any problems between him and I. I told him that he didn't have to do that, and htat her datign life is none opf my business, but I wish him and her well. A Year later, I DeeJayed there Weddign Reception,a nd wished her well. That Ex actually aske dme to give her away, cause her Dad had just passed away. I respectfully declined. Why can't al relationships have soem sense of calm and sensibility when they end. MInd You, that girl broke my heart too, but in the end, we wer able to become very good friends. Why all the friggin drama around this latest Ex. I have never seen somany people act like immature idiots in my life..... Suddenly I am this Bad guy among a group of people whom I don't even know. All because i got dumped, and hurt by this woman. I never treated her badly. I always treated with her repsect. And even in tghe breakup, I tried to remain friends with her and her little girl. I don't get it. I don't know these people. All I did was be the Ex of oneof there friends new girlfriend. I don't want her back. I have a new Girl that I am very happy with. Why is this stupid drama even happening?
Pocky Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Don't worry about what other people say. As long as you know the truth and you're comfortable with your behavior then you don't need to concern yourself with their drama. There are so many people in the world - what does one little group really matter?
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