adidas6380 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 It seems like the last couple girlfriends that i have had have always needed to take a break after about three months. I don't really know why. but they do. i don't know if this is normal or what. but it is just confusing to me. the girl that i have been with for the past three months is a little younger than me and i don't get to see her as much is i wish i could. i get to see her maybe about twice a month. but i really like her and i have been with her for longer than any other guy she has been with. i just don't understand why she wants to take a break now. she said that she is really stressed out and that she needs some time to think about what she wants but she still wants to be friends for now. and she has been really stressed out but i thought that i would just be someone for her to get away with and not worry about things. its mostly her school and she just got done with her tennis season.
Naive Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 If all the girls you've been with want to take a break after about 3 months then maybe it has something to do with you. Maybe you start to change within that time. Maybe you start to get too serious about the relationship or something else changes about you.
Author adidas6380 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 but i dont see how it can become that serious when i dont even get to see her that much. we talk on the phone and stuff. havent said "i love you" or anything. and they always come running back once i start to move on.
Naive Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Well it does not have to be that necessarily that changes, it could probably be something else. Maybe you start to not be so serious. You never know.
Author adidas6380 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 i don't know. it just confuses me and i dont want to go through these breaks. and i know that i cant do anything to change it. but i just wish she knew what all i went through last year with my ex-girlfriend. i went through hell. she took me thourhg so much after we took a break and i even hated myself then. i was a total a**h*** to everyone i knew. my grades started to drop dramatically. i wasnt sleeping well and i just went through hell and i guess i am jsut worried that the same thing is going to happen with the girl i am with now. i mean i sent her a text message today asking her how long she was planning on taking this break and she sent me one back saying that she wanted this break to figure out what she wants and that she doesnt know how long she wanted the break and that she still wants to be friends for now. and that just worries me. i dont want to go through what i went through last year. but i still really like this girl. i dont know if i am overreacting or what. but i dont want to lose her.
Naive Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Tell her exactly what you feel. That does not mean she will do what's best for you, but maybe she will change her mind.
Author adidas6380 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 i dont know im one of those people that thinks of the worst possible outcomes. and i just feel like if i says that its jsut going to push her away. but im going home this weekend and i was going to see if she might go out with me for one night.
Author adidas6380 Posted October 29, 2004 Author Posted October 29, 2004 well nevermind. i talked to her tonight and she told me that she wants it to be more than a break. so we are done and i am going to move on. thanks anyways.
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