Pookie5 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 So basically, me and this guy have been not allowed to talk for crazy but understanding reasons by our parents. My dad told him to stay away. Basically we ended on good terms in October 2012. However we haven't spoken to each other since. Not even a hello. Ever. We ran into a place and he let me cut him and then sorta gestured to talk but I was too nervous so I just cut and went on. Then he's been always looking at me if we are at the same place. And he hasn't blocked me on Skype. (Which he used to do when we would fight). Basically I've been calling him sometimes with a blocked number and he picks up everytime but doesn't say anything. I think he knows its me. He just breaths heavily. I've called him about 5 times. Out of those 3 out of 5 I hung up after 1 minute. And the 4 th time he was breathing and laughing. Like almost chuckling. Idk what was that about!? Why isn't he saying hello like a Normal person? What would he possible be laughing at? So I got mad at his laugh and closed it. So then I called again and he picked up. This time didnt laugh and then just Waited for a minute and hung up on me. I writes statuses for him on Skype. Reminding him to do certain things for work and to smoke less. Idk.. What do u think his reason is for silence. He clearly picks up each time even though all he heard from me is silence. What are your suggestions?
TigerCub Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 So basically, me and this guy have been not allowed to talk for crazy but understanding reasons by our parents. My dad told him to stay away. Basically we ended on good terms in October 2012. However we haven't spoken to each other since. Not even a hello. Ever. We ran into a place and he let me cut him and then sorta gestured to talk but I was too nervous so I just cut and went on. Then he's been always looking at me if we are at the same place. And he hasn't blocked me on Skype. (Which he used to do when we would fight). Basically I've been calling him sometimes with a blocked number and he picks up everytime but doesn't say anything. I think he knows its me. He just breaths heavily. I've called him about 5 times. Out of those 3 out of 5 I hung up after 1 minute. And the 4 th time he was breathing and laughing. Like almost chuckling. Idk what was that about!? Why isn't he saying hello like a Normal person? What would he possible be laughing at? So I got mad at his laugh and closed it. So then I called again and he picked up. This time didnt laugh and then just Waited for a minute and hung up on me. I writes statuses for him on Skype. Reminding him to do certain things for work and to smoke less. Idk.. What do u think his reason is for silence. He clearly picks up each time even though all he heard from me is silence. What are your suggestions? Hey Op, the whole story seems a bit silly. Why do you keep calling? Do you say anything on the phone when you call him, or are you both not saying anything? The part in bold stood out - you're not his mom, don't remind him about his work, or his smoking, or whatever. And honestly, just stop calling him.
Zahara Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 Why come here and ask for advice and not heed a single word anyone has tried to tell you? This man raped you twice. Stop engaging with him and stop playing juvenile games by calling him from a blocked number. Normal person? What's normal about calling a person from a blocked number repeatedly? Normal people call and say hello and have a conversation. What does that make you? You are 18. You've been advised to concentrate on your education. You've been advised that this man is dangerous and unhealthy for you. What about you not screwing up your life at 18 don't you understand? 2
TigerCub Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 Why come here and ask for advice and not heed a single word anyone has tried to tell you? This man raped you twice. Stop engaging with him and stop playing juvenile games by calling him from a blocked number. Normal person? What's normal about calling a person from a blocked number repeatedly? Normal people call and say hello and have a conversation. What does that make you? You are 18. You've been advised to concentrate on your education. You've been advised that this man is dangerous and unhealthy for you. What about you not screwing up your life at 18 don't you understand? Woah, I so didn't even know that. OP, stay the hell away from that creep. Please seek therapy.
Zahara Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 It's normal to feel depressed or at least some level of sadness/depression when trying to break away. But THINK before you act. What is the point in calling him from a blocked number? How does it benefit you? What do you seek from a man that has harmed you twice? THINK of your actions. Be smart, now. You are 18. Do you really want a life with a man like this for the rest of your life? THINK. If you are depressed, see a counsellor. Talk to your parents. See a doctor. Get involved in healthy activities. Focus on your studies. Be proactive in getting yourself better.
RogerWallace111 Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 I think he knows its me. He just breaths heavily. I've called him about 5 times. Out of those 3 out of 5 I hung up after 1 minute. And the 4 th time he was breathing and laughing. Like almost chuckling. Idk what was that about!? Why isn't he saying hello like a Normal person? What would he possible be laughing at? So I got mad at his laugh and closed it. :laugh: Anyway, I'm missing something here. Rape ? 18..?
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