Sunny85 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone, I met a really nice men two months ago. We live very far away from eachother, 9 hours drive. We met on holiday and ever since the holiday we chat with eachother a lot. Now he first wanted to visit me and then I had to work a lot so I suggested another date he could visit me. But then he could not come cause he had something from his work... then days passed by and I suggested another date we could see eachother. He only responded vague, not clear to me and I had the feeling he was avoiding me coming to his house.... I suggested several times coming to his place but he was never clear in his answer. Then he suggested going on holiday together this month. I responded very friendly and mailed it was a very good idea! But when I talked to him online again he did not come back on the subject of going on holiday together! Now this is kinda strange to me... Then he gave me his phone number and asked me if I could call him. I called him but he did not answer the phone. Now one week has passed and I called him 3 times during the week, and then he did pick up the phone and said he was very busy, that his dog was very sick and he was at the vegetarian when I called.... He sounded friendly but he did not call me back.... why does he not suggest other dates to see eachother again? why does he not call me back? Now I sended him a message asking him how he is doing. As far as I know he does not have a girlfriend, but ofcourse I can never be sure... but if he likes me, wich he says he does and he says that we can see eachother and he would like to see me again, why does he not respond to another call ? I also think he probably loose his interest because I chase him, it's not very good I think when a men does not have to do any effort to get a girl, he will probably loose his interest. Sometimes I went online and when he was online I waited for him to talk to me, and then he always started the chat so I think it was a good sign. But he gives me mixed signals and I am afraid he has maybe more options in woman, their might be more who like him or who are dating him.... Otherwise why would he be so unclear to me? Anyone advice on this situation? Stop saying word to him? just let him do the talk and call and if he does not then forget about it? thank you Edited July 25, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
lakeshore678 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 Leave him alone. He does not want to date you.
BC1980 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 Agreed. He is making it clear he is no longer interested. Who knows why. It doesn't really matter. You call someone once. Then, it's their turn to call back. They know how to reach you if they want to. Sorry. It's happened to all of us where someone just loses interest and stops calling. Best thing is to move on.
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