lifeislove88 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 I've posted on here before but I'm still so lost and depressed. My boyfriend and I were perfect and had planned the future and everything. He was so affectionate and willing to do anything for my happiness. I moved to be with him 1,000 miles from home and the affection faded and he started putting his friends before me. How can he love me SO much and then just not see a future with me anymore? He doesn't know, and I sure as heck don't either and it hurts.
Philosoraptor Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 He must not have been that perfect if he dropped you for his friends. Sounds like he was fine when you lived far away but after you moved there a real relationship started and he wasn't ready for it.
Delilah1623 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 I just went through something similair. Planning a future. Seemed made for eachother. And then one day he just changed his mind. I think when it comes down to it a lot of people can't handle it when things REALLY get real. Some think its better to have loved and lost.... Some think its better to bail and not take the risk. If he isn't willing to really commit better you find out now than many years down the road and can start looking for someone as committed as you are. You do not want to come after his friends for the rest of your life. I know it hurts but you'll begin to accept it. Don't spend too much time trying to understand. You never will. But you'll be ok. I promise.
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