lisrod Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 I broke up with my gf two months ago because I needed to get my life together I admit it was selfish of me but every other aspect of my life was falling apart. I wanted to get back together once I was stable again. I hurt her in the process of breaking up with her. She insisted on remaining friends even if it meant she was miserable. A week later, my life was slowly getting better and I asked her if she wanted to try things again but she said "we don't work" and that "we could try again in the future" I found out she was dating this guy I hated. Even though she denied their relationship she used every social network to make me jealous (which she is still doing). I stopped pursuing her started no contact and let her be happy. A few weeks ago I tried messaging her and now she is bitter and ignoring. Last week I messaged her saying "I'd really like to talk to you whenever you're ready to talk to me." No response. If she still has feelings for me why won't she even talk to me? Should I message her again and apologize or just wait until she messages me? (I've already apologized during the time I was pursuing her.) Best regards-
Author lisrod Posted July 24, 2013 Author Posted July 24, 2013 Also, it's not that I don't want to apologize, last thing I want is to pester her more and drive her closer to her new bf.
xilver Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 I broke up with my gf two months ago because I needed to get my life together I admit it was selfish of me but every other aspect of my life was falling apart. I wanted to get back together once I was stable again. I hurt her in the process of breaking up with her. She insisted on remaining friends even if it meant she was miserable. A week later, my life was slowly getting better and I asked her if she wanted to try things again but she said "we don't work" and that "we could try again in the future" I found out she was dating this guy I hated. Even though she denied their relationship she used every social network to make me jealous (which she is still doing). I stopped pursuing her started no contact and let her be happy. A few weeks ago I tried messaging her and now she is bitter and ignoring. Last week I messaged her saying "I'd really like to talk to you whenever you're ready to talk to me." No response. If she still has feelings for me why won't she even talk to me? Should I message her again and apologize or just wait until she messages me? (I've already apologized during the time I was pursuing her.) Best regards- If she isn't responding then you have your answer. She is dealing with the other guy. Maybe when she gets bored of him or in a fight she will show interest in you again. Or maybe you hurt her so bad that she doesn't want to go through it again at all. Try and forget about her.
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