memyselfi Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 My bf just told me that I stopped making him laugh, 3 weeks ago, when he just told me last Saturday that he is happy for how I treat him because I acted like a wife. I dont understand why he just suddenly acted like that.
Keenly Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 From all the information you posted, he didn't act like anything. He told you how he felt.
Chris516 Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 My bf just told me that I stopped making him laugh, 3 weeks ago, when he just told me last Saturday that he is happy for how I treat him because I acted like a wife. I dont understand why he just suddenly acted like that. He is giving you mixed signals, which is not honest on his part.
FitChick Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 You are making demands that he meet you for the first time. He prefers fantasy to reality. That is why he is divorced. Unlike porn sites where he'd have to pay to talk to a woman, you do it for free. He wants to be entertained.
Author memyselfi Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 You are making demands that he meet you for the first time. He prefers fantasy to reality. That is why he is divorced. Unlike porn sites where he'd have to pay to talk to a woman, you do it for free. He wants to be entertained. Excuse me? Entertain? I believe we both love each other, and he is just experiencing pressure, stress this time.
Taramere Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Excuse me? Entertain? I believe we both love each other, and he is just experiencing pressure, stress this time. There you go then. Problem solved.
Author memyselfi Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 There you go then. Problem solved. but I have one more problem, his ex gf is interfering, i feel like she knows what is going on between me and my bf now, they broke up last year and this girl doesnt want to stop texting him, I believe tho that he wont jump into that girl again while he is still in this relationship. The messaged me yesterday the time my bf and i talking, she just messaged me period ( . ) and i saw the message very late already. I replied the same ( . ). Nothing else follows, I dont understand why she has to do that.
Treasa Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Is this the guy who has cheated on you, shown pictures of his dick to people in a chatroom, called you stupid, and occasionally left you hanging with how he felt? I think you're clingy, but I think he's a huge douchebag. Get rid of him. Find a nice guy who's local.
CherryT Posted July 25, 2013 Posted July 25, 2013 Excuse me? Entertain? I believe we both love each other, and he is just experiencing pressure, stress this time. I don't think you can really LOVE someone until you meet them. You have no idea what his mannerisms are like in person. You don't know someone until you actually meet them. You're also talking to his ex gf and you're the "new girlfriend" whom he's never met or touched... I wouldn't trust someone I've never seen in person. And this guy is old enough to have 2 kids in High School? Talk about drama when the relationship really hasn't even started.
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