setsenia Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 In addition to my financial issues, I am feeling depressed because it seems like my friends think I am overbearing. I find they start to withdraw if I want to hang out or talk more than once a week. My husband and I work different schedules and I cannot talk to my coworkers at work because my boss is weird about it. So for the most part, I am alone 5 days a week and I am stuck doing homework at the end of the week when my husband and I finally have time together. I'm sure it's nothing personal, but I often wonder what is so wrong with me for people to feel that way. I see friends hanging out several times a week. I'm not sure how to figure out when my presence starts making people feel this way. I just feel really lonely and depressed.
pink_sugar Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 (edited) I have some friends like this too, but I try not to take it personally. I am also somewhat of a loner myself. Sometimes I wonder if I did something to offend them. Edited July 24, 2013 by pink_sugar
Emilia Posted July 24, 2013 Posted July 24, 2013 So for the most part, I am alone 5 days a week and I am stuck doing homework at the end of the week when my husband and I finally have time together. I'm sure it's nothing personal, but I often wonder what is so wrong with me for people to feel that way. I see friends hanging out several times a week. I'm not sure how to figure out when my presence starts making people feel this way. I just feel really lonely and depressed. Look at free things to do at your location, take up running, go to free exhibitions, join Find Meetup groups near you - Meetup, meet new people. Once you divert your attention from your friends and gain perspective you will find everything will fall into place much easier.
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