Whats the worst thing you've done to an ex, after you broke up?

[Crushedjustcrushed]

I guess the title should be "...after they broke up with you."

 

I'm not talking physical abuse or stuff like that, but maybe stuff like telling their secrets or doing other stuff to embarrass them, publicly.

 

Like, for instance, something like calling a credit card company that you know they are dodging and ratting them out.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Had gay men's magazines sent to him at his job. I mean, besides the guy I made kielbasa out of and consumed over the course of a long and hungry winter.

[AllTooWell]

I've never done anything bad.

 

But... I have helped a friend do something quite awful.

 

Her exbf dumped her in a humiliatingly cruel fashion and she was devastated (she still is, over a year later). He crushed every ounce of self-esteem, respect, and happiness she had.

 

She had the passwords to multiple accounts he had, including his email. A few days after the break up it came to our attention that he had been interviewed by a magazine for something. (Not providing details for obvious reasons). Anyway, we went back and changed ALL OF HIS INTERVIEW ANSWERS to completely inappropriate but HILARIOUS things.

 

In the end, she got cold feet and didn't want to screw up his life (because inappropriate answers could actually impact him quite negatively) so instead, she kept his answers the same but changed the ending of the article. In the last paragraph where he is thanking his parents, siblings, etc for helping him, she added "And thanks to ExGf's Name Here, for standing by me even when I didn't deserve it. You've always been better than me."

[aloneinaz]

The worst thing I did to my ex after she ended it was to disappear from her life. She's heard nothing but silence from me which speaks VOLUMES compared to doing something childish that only tells your ex you're not over them.

 

7 weeks NC since the end and I've met a terrific woman who's better than my ex in just about every way. Mean while my friend sees my ex on two different dating sites everyday. You don't want me in your life? You got it. I moved on..

 

That's the best revenge.

[xilver]

She wouldn't classify as my gf or someone I loved but when I decided I didn't want to see her again I gave her number to a guy I knew and told him to hook up with her and tell her I sent him. I was in college at the time. I totally forgot about that until I saw this post. Geeze I feel bad just thinking about that. More recently I threw a wad of singles at a girl as she was closing her car door on me when we were breaking up. I couldn't believe it was such a perfect throw. The stack of ones (that I owed her) barely made it in as the door slammed and once inside they scattered everywhere. We do some stupid and mean stuff when we are hurt by those we love.

[HateThisLimbo]

I'm a Health Coach. Over the course of our two year relationship, I helped him lose close to 100 lbs. He was extremely vain (OCD) about his appearance even though he had gained so much weight.

 

I went through my house and replaced all of our skinny pics together with all fat pics of just him. I felt a lot better!

[lop98]

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[2sure]

I hired three lawyers, divorced him, and took everything but his child hood memories .

[Mme. Chaucer]

A girl I knew was dumped - she and another friend set his car on fire.

 

True story.

 

Criminals!

[C.Bradley]

Begged him to come to a friend's party then beat him up afterwards. lol not my finest moment

[Delilah1623]

Anytime I got the slightest bit upset he would tell me if was a red flag. When he dumped me I MAY have screamed at his with his friend nearby "Me getting upset is a red flag? How about the time you woke up from a drunken pass out to your wife ****ing your best friend in the same bed next to you? Or the girl that you were dating that had sex with you knowing she was pregnant with her ex boyfriends baby?? Those seem like pretty damn big red flags to me."......

[LostOne1]

Sent all the bday, anniversary cards gifts she gave me and left them at her house. Unfortunately, she shares a home with her parents, who then went through the box before she got home.

 

Her dad did not know we were going out and her mom did... I guess her dad was SUPER upset when he found out and my ex bitched me out via text.

 

I also posted publicly on facebook about her cheating on me... I'm not happy about that event.. but hey you live and learn. She probably deserved it, but the sad part is I am not normally that shallow. So I kinda showed a side of myself that was sad...

[lukekarts]

I have allegedly hacked all her email accounts, her facebook, wiped her phone and forced her to change her number and close all said accounts.

 

I don't remember this at all, I was drunk. I am now being investigated...

[Leigh 87]

I love this thread.

 

Worst thing I've done to an ex?

 

I told my most recent one that I hooked up with a guy. About a month and a ha after the breakup I hooked up with a wayyyyyyy hotter English guy. Who wss wayyyy better in bed than my ex.

 

....... I didn't tell him the last part. I just alluded to hooking up with the new guy. Knowing very well that my ex would be very upset.

[headsashed]

I told my ex's father why me and his daughter had really broke up ( she cheated with some random guy on holiday ) , her father actually thought it was a mutual break up and was gutted cos he really liked me. He didn't look best pleased when I told him that his little princess had slept with some random guy, well he did ask me and I was only being honest with him as I know she painted me black to her parents.

[jesse93]

very interesting read, can't think of anything i've really done besides once this girl cheated on me so i sent her nudes around, but i guess that isn't that bad in all honesty i could never get myself to come to doing something horrific to an ex because i would feel ****ty, unless they truly deserved it. but some of the stuff you guys said dang >.>

[adelia]

honestly i must be in the minority. ive had a few breakups in my life and ive been angry, felt rejected and used but i could and would never "get even" or do something to hurt my ex vindictivly. ive done little things in the relationship. passive aggressive silly stuff im not proud of but it wasnt done because i wanted to hurt them more to get a reaction. its immature but i think everyone has been guilty of this.

as far as being mean intentionally and setting out to hurt an ex i just couldnt. firstly im not that sort if person and secondly i did love them at one point and we shared memories and pieces of ourselves. even the ones who had cheated on me i can see past it and see the good we shared. no ones entirely rotten. well maybe a set few but most of our exs arent ALL bad. think before you react because you cant take back hurtful actions once theyre done or the damage it can cause. be the better person out of it and youll be happier in the end.

[iouaname]

I never really did anything to him. He would get frustrated by my behavior, but I never did anything to get revenge. However, when I found out he was saying some nasty things about me -- I threatened him. I'm not really proud of it, but I also don't regret it. I didn't go through with what I threatened and never planned to, but I felt the need to watch out for myself against the things he was saying.