Linlin Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 My ex is driving me crazy. I have been separated from my H for about 6 months now. The reason is he decided to have an affair with a friend of ours and I caught them. Niether one of them is too repentant about what happened. We both have 2 small kids who were friends in kindergarten. I kick my H out and sold our house. He moved in with his parents and I moved in with mine while I am waiting for a new house to be built. The OW left her H and thought she would pick up with mine but that hasn't happened yet. He goes over the screw her no doubt but won't commit to her. Anyway, I am having to put up with alot of behaviours from my H recently. I have told him repeatedly that I have no interest in talking as long as he is carrying on with her. Something is up since he told me on Friday that her H phoned my in-laws and treatened him. I told him that I was not happy about this since my kids could get involved or hurt if her H is "losing it." My H threatened me that he is going to declare personal bankruptcy yesterday. I told him that it doesn't get him out of child support. He said you can't get blood from a stone. This morning he called me and told since I am not interacting and talking with him or if I divorced him, that he is going to hook up with her and start bringing my kids around her. I think this will cause alot of confusion and hurt to the kids. They are only 3 and 6. I told him that he can see me in court then if he does this. What do you think? We have had no lawyers involved to this point. Can I keep the kids from being around her. We are talking about a women I caught giving my H and hand*** in front of my 3 year old and having sex in her house with her kids in the room next door. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Just a few points: 1) You have a child together, so you both need to be cool and polite - at least - when dealing with each other 2) If you had a lawyer, you could probably take action to convince him not to declare bankruptcy 3) he called me and told since I am not interacting and talking with him or if I divorced him, that he is going to hook up with her and start bringing my kids around her Courts will typically act in the best interest of the child, so if you can demonstrate his inappropriate parenting behaviors, you can prevent him from harming your child(ren) in this way. A lawyer would help here as well. The only time you don't need a lawyer for a divorce is when you are POSITIVE that the other party will act reasonably and legally without compulsion. Your H clearly doesn't. Link to post Share on other sites
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