overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I wrote about this guy before... now he has asked me out several times. We have had lunch and dinner on several occasions. The chemistry is pretty huge and sometimes its hard not to act nervous around him for me. Still nothing has happened yet. He asks me a million questions during our dates but he has not yet made any moves at all? He also makes comments about how pretty I am. But yet our dates are limited. He does not call me often. But he always makes another date at the end of the one we are on. And the dates are always either lunch or drinks in the evening. WE usually spend about 2 hours together. This weekend I went to a city that is four hours away from me. He was going in the same direction. So we drove down together and had drinks. Then on the way back he left his car there and I picked him up and we drove back home together. WE had lunch on the way. See what I mean about the dates. We did nothing on the weekend at all.... He said he was busy and had to work and visit his parents. So we drove together... what a wierd date ay? I am confused I guess? I dont know where this is going? I havent heard from him in two days. On our last date he told me to call him when I go swimming at the pool next time and he would come with me. I guess I will do that tomorrow. But I feel like I am going to explode every time I see him and nothing happens. I just get let down... Help...what should I do?
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Well, if it was me (and I'm very blunt) on the next date I would just lean over and kiss him. If you're not that bold, you could just give him a friendly hug and see if a kiss happens from that. I don't that one before too. What happens more often then not is that I get my kiss after the hug. The only way to know is to do it. He's already said how pretty you are so you know he's at least somewhat interested. Maybe he feels the same way that you do.
Author overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 Thanks alot but I cant do that. I am not that type of person. The thing that is confusing in all this is that we are not kids. **** he is 42 and has been married and divorced. You'd think that things would be easier...
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 You can't just hug him bye? Do you hug your friends? Or are you guys not touchy-feely? Is there someway that you could bring the subject up of you guys dating?
Author overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 Ok, this is even better. Last time we saw each other I put my hand on his face to show him how cold my hands are. Geez isnt that enough...
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Well what did he do. Did he grab your hands and put them in between his to warm them up.....or was he just like, "oh, that's nice."
Stone Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Make alot of eye contact and smile .... he should pick up on that.
Author overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 He said "ok since your cold we have to leave"....
Author overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 The way I got him to ask me out in the first place was that I put on a sexy black business dress on and went to a meeting with him. I stared at him in the worst way. That night he called me and asked me for our first date.... That was three weeks ago. I am at my wits end here.
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I'm starting the think you shouldn't have to work this hard to get a guys attention.
Stone Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 He's probably trying to respect you and is in it for longevity, I say next time get drunk and grab it LOL ( kidding) He sounds like a sweet guy, maby he is shy and you MIGHT have to make the first move... I am sure he will followe thru
Author overseas2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 Love the b**bs on your avatar.
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