Matt10 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Hi all any answers is helpful. So it's been two weeks since my girlfriend broke up with me she claimed it was because of communication which to me is a poor excuse to end it when it could be fixed . We were together close to four years and are in our mid 20s . So later on week later she said she didn't know about her feelings. So this is where I'm like we'll what feelings exactly and she said she didn't know. A week before we broke up she poured her heart out to me in an agriment we got into which was silly. Within the last month she meet the rest of my extended family at weddings and it looked like she enjoyed them all as so they did. She always said that she would like to plan things for near the end of summer go on a trip for a weekend. How excited she was for my job. Anyways it's like this came out of the blue and I feel taken for because if she was feeling different about it when she met my entire family and that she didnt even talk to me first about it. What you guys all think. Btw she still has me on all social media as we'll I sent her a nice message last Friday night then deactivated Facebook to where she sent me a message asking if I deleted Facebook.
theonlyjuan Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Maybe she was feeling unsure the whole time but was trying to go along with it all. She may have wanted to do those things in the future, but if she's not feeling it 100%, maybe she thought otherwise. Would you give up years of your future for something you wasn't 100% sure on? It sounds harsh, but it's not personal. Life is short and you have to do what you feel is best at the time. Maybe she didn't want to string you along. My ex broke up with my, out of nowhere. She said as much as she wished she could, she didn't love me. She said she would rather end it now than in years time. At the time I thought she lied, I thought it was something wrong with me. Now I totally understand and accepted it Some are willing to go with the flow ( like me ) others think they have to feel it within a certain time and don't risk the possibilities. I'm sure someone else will have a different opinion it it
aloneinaz Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 You guys were together a long time for you early 20's. Sounds like she just lost interest in the relationship or fell out of love with you. I'm sure she also has on her mind that she's only going to be in her 20's for a short time longer and wants to play the field a bit as well. At this point, there's nothing you can do that won't make you look desperate, pathetic, weak and whinny. You need to cut all contact, delete her from all social sites and move on with your life. She doesn't want you anymore, give her what she wants. If it's meant to be, you'll hook back up in the future..
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