Wasted Youth Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Been 3 month since me and my ex split up and had any kind of contact. I feel a lot better in myself and no longer feel upset or feel like I am waiting around waiting for a text. I do feel like I am ready to iniate contact with her again and see how it goes but do you think this is a wrong idea?
itto ogami Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 if you're not wating for a text, you don't need to send one now. Good job with your NC too. You're through the worst.
Author Wasted Youth Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 I guess you are right thanks Guess I still would like to hear from her but no point in breaking 3 month no contact.
Philosoraptor Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 What is making you want to initiate contact? What do you hope to get from speaking with her?
Author Wasted Youth Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 What is making you want to initiate contact? What do you hope to get from speaking with her? nothing in particular, just a general conversation really.
Echo000 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 trust me, from my own personal experience after breaking NC after four months- dont do it. If she has changed and wants to be with you, you will hear from her one day. It takes two things for a reconciliation to ever work successfully: 1. Genuine change in both people 2. Mutual desire to be back together My situation, the ex still wanted to be with me but had not changed at all. In fact, she seemed worse in certain respects. Found out she is moving away, and now in a world of pain again. DONT. BREAK. NC. 1
Author Wasted Youth Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 trust me, from my own personal experience after breaking NC after four months- dont do it. If she has changed and wants to be with you, you will hear from her one day. It takes two things for a reconciliation to ever work successfully: 1. Genuine change in both people 2. Mutual desire to be back together My situation, the ex still wanted to be with me but had not changed at all. In fact, she seemed worse in certain respects. Found out she is moving away, and now in a world of pain again. DONT. BREAK. NC. thank you for your advice
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