ggas Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Ok, it's been 5 months since we broke up. I posted my break up story a while back. In any case some days ago I updated my sts with a joke between me and a friend. It was something about science, actually it was something concerning my research. Anyways my ex decided to comment and try to "answer" my sts with some fancy geeky sciency article/algorithm using all kind of fancy names and terms and so on. Bottom line is this, what she posted HAD NO RELEVANCE to my status, NONE WHATSOEVER. It really came out as trying to show off and quite arrogant. I answered nicely saying look this is not what I was asking but you could send me that article you mentioned if you say it's so important --- to which she replied that she understands now what I was asking and that she knows the answer. I was like ok so what is it? never got a reply to that. I'm not sure why she did that? Was it so I can see that she knows some fancy sciency stuff now? To show off her new life and how cool she is and she is surrounded by smarter people than me or what? I REALLY DON'T GET IT! I mean I know she was insecure academically and that she told me she wants to know things that I don't. But science IS NOT ABOUT THAT. Anyway, it made me feel crappy. This and the fact that some time ago I ended up on her FB (the one and ONLY time). I'm like, ok I have some merit in her life being all cool and fancy now and she is being arrogant towards me. I don't get it. I regret now not deleting her from FB. I just don't want to give her THAT SATISFACTION and I know that this crappy period is just some temporary phase and it will pass in a few days or so. Just need to vent it all here and get some feedback.
Philosoraptor Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Stop playing these games with her and just hit the delete button and block. That way you don't have to worry about such things anymore. At this point you're playing these games with yourself as you have every ability to end them but choose not to. 1
Author ggas Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 I hear you but it just seems weak somehow. I don't want her to have that satisfaction.
Chi townD Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Seem weak? Think of it as swatting away a fly. Is that weak?
Philosoraptor Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I hear you but it just seems weak somehow. I don't want her to have that satisfaction. What satisfaction? You're taking control of your own life. Who cares what she thinks about it?
Echo000 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 you playing this game with your ex is weak. takes strength to block someone and not care what they think. weak to not take action because your afraid what an ex will think. 1
LisaLee Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I don't think deleting her from FB is weak. I think it is more of a "Bitch, I don't want to deal with you, anymore!" action. Just delete her. 1
Author ggas Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 you guys are awesome. Thank you! I will delete her and I will be happy with that decision. This way there is no opening for her to poke me whenever she feels like it.
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