Cbg j86 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 So some background...my ex and I dated for 4 years and went through a lot together. We bought a house, she watched me go through my worst and come back out on top. She stayed faithfully by my side through a deployment. I came back in May of 2012 from my deployment and things were not so great and quickly took a turn for the worst. It ended in a most bitter breakup with both of us saying ALOT of harsh words. Long story short I signed the house over to her so she would have no reason to contact me at all. I moved out for good in April and immediately jumped into a new relationship with an amazing woman. I haven't really thought about my ex at all. I mean this girl that I am dating now is everything that I have always wanted In a partner. It's almost perfect. Two weeks ago I had a few drinks and felt really down and had this awful idea to call my ex. The convo was about 15-20 minutes long and I don't recollect all that we talked about but it was not all lovey dovey filled with I miss yous. So I have not thought about it since, it was just a fluke and that was that. This past Saturday I got an email from my ex. It was very friendly and just said hey I was thinking about you, hope all is well, how is the dog. Etc. Nothing major in my book. But what has totally screwed up my head is how she ended the note. She finished off her email with "more than you know,A." We used to always say to each other "how much do you love me" and respond with "more than you know." I would have been totally fine but this has just screwed me up entirely. She has been on my mind nonstop. Even so much that I am laying with my curre t gf thinking of my ex. Am I reading too much into this email or did she mean something in her message.
Misfortune Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 If the new woman is so amazing why is your ex getting to you? It's not fair to your current if you aren't over your ex. Being with someone and thinking about someone else isn't a good sign for the current relationship. 1
Chi townD Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I agree. You jumped into a rebound relationship and that's not fair to the girl you're currently dating.
mysterymissgreeneyes Posted July 29, 2013 Posted July 29, 2013 I'm with someone, thinking of an ex who initiated contact with me. Sucks, because you feel guilty and all mixed up/confused. Your ex is sending you mixed signals. You have to decide either to cut contact with her or cut it off with your current to give your ex another go... depends though, idk your past history
Talulah Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 you need to figure out if you still love your ex...I was in that situation once, and my ex and his ex are now married. There are no feelings there but it hurt a lot. Your ex just might momentarily miss you.
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