LowerInfinity Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I'm wanting to give my Girlfriend a perfect night without spending money. I want this to take place at my house, no going out or anything. I screwed up recently, big time! We are getting over it, but I still want to do something special for her. I was just looking for some ideas from you ladies on what would make a night rememberable and very special to you. Thanks for the input.
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I would think a candle lit dinner would do the trick. I know it sounds cheesy and passe but that's what I would want for a romantic night. Then, I would want to spend the rest of the night talking with no distractions (no t.v, no cellphone, etc.)
Confused28 Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 That is very sweet! I would cook dinner for her and eat with candlelight and a bottle of wine. Write her a letter or poem professing your love and loyalty to her. read it to her. Tell her how you feel when you see her, how you felt when you first saw her (for the first time) how sexy she is, how she rocks your world. tell her that no other woman could ever do for you what she does for you. stare at her and touch her cheek, run your hand down the front of her throat (i love that!!!) Dance with her after dinner (if she likes that) and give her a massage. Just profess your love in everyway, even if you feel cheesy and vulnerable, who cares. whisper in her ear, touch her all over, make love and stare into her eyes, tell her how much she turns you on. don't hold back anything... just give yourself entirely to her. then make breakfast in bed in the morning and tell her how beautiful she looks in the morning with no makeup! let us know how it goes!! Confused28
Lowerinfinity Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Thanks for your input Ladies. I will give it a go and will let you know how it works out.
seahorse Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Originally posted by Confused28 That is very sweet! I would cook dinner for her and eat with candlelight and a bottle of wine. Write her a letter or poem professing your love and loyalty to her. read it to her. Tell her how you feel when you see her, how you felt when you first saw her (for the first time) how sexy she is, how she rocks your world. tell her that no other woman could ever do for you what she does for you. stare at her and touch her cheek, run your hand down the front of her throat (i love that!!!) Dance with her after dinner (if she likes that) and give her a massage. Just profess your love in everyway, even if you feel cheesy and vulnerable, who cares. whisper in her ear, touch her all over, make love and stare into her eyes, tell her how much she turns you on. don't hold back anything... just give yourself entirely to her. then make breakfast in bed in the morning and tell her how beautiful she looks in the morning with no makeup! let us know how it goes!! Confused28 Yep, it may all sound cheesy to you LowerInfinity, but it would definitely do it for me!! The soppier the better.
disconcertainly Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Wow! You are so sweet! I wish my boyfriend could think about me that way. Just thinking about her that way lets me know that you really love this girl!
sunlight Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Depends on how bad you screwed up. If you really liked this girl, you shouldnt have underesteemated her, so if shes a smart girl it might take a little bit more than just dinner and a rub. You may have some explaining to do. Show her that you can communicate. Be logical, but also keep in mind every girl wants to feel special. If thats what you broke it will take a heck of alot to make her feel special again. Good Luck.
LowerInfinity Posted October 29, 2004 Posted October 29, 2004 Well, what happened was...We got into a bad argument and she got physical, then i got physical. I did put myself in a 14 week Domestic Violence course to help me with this matter. That is not who I am, and not who I want to be. We are working through this though. We are just spending limited time together and talking through it. She is also getting help with her problems from the past. Anyway, I hope all this goes well. We have a very good attitude about our future. Thanks, Lower
Lowerinfinity Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Well, it went really well. She was blown away, and we had an awesome night. The next night we went to a halloween concert for one of her fav. bands (that she thinks the lead singer is really hot, and it took alot for me to get over my jealousy problems) and had her leading me around on a leash and dog collar all night. All the women loved it, all the men thought i was crazy. But she was the hottest one there, especially with me on a leash. I told everyone that if they had one night with her then they'd be on a leash too! Hahaha. We had fun. Thanks for the help. You helped make us a happy couple again! I see the light at the end of the tunnel! Lower
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