geebz Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 alright... real quick. I'm in college (senior) and there is this girl in my class who i've actually started to like a lot. So, one day, not too long ago...she was writing me notes in class asking me questions like.. fav color, fav music, if you could put a concert together who would 3 acts be...etc. SO! Then all of a sudden, she asks.. what do you look for in a girl? so i answered... vaguely, didn't want to give her too much.. then she asked.. what is your ideal date? so i kidded around with her a bit and finished off saying I'd pull some of my tricks out near the end of the date (to make it special).. She was interested to hear what the tricks were, but i told her only the lucky ones find out.. So class was over, we talked afterwards for a bit and that was that.. Today we had class together, and when I walked in late, she looked right at me and smiled (like always)... Both of us caught each other looking at each other. Everything sounds good I think... BUT! I've never done this with a girl in one of my classes.... We've already had lunch together and had a great time.. But i'm just very cautious with this.. If something goes wrong, i'm in class with her 2 days a week for a hour and a half and i sit behind her.(would be kind of awkward) i was thinking of waiting until the semester was over....But that could be too late. I don't know what to do... any suggestions?
sami Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 You'll be such a chicken to wait. You don't have too much time left on your hand.
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Don't wait. I dated someone once in college and he was in EVERY one of my classes. We were going out for a year when we broke up. Yeah, it was bad at first but we got over it. Now he's my best friend! Don't wait! Go for it!!!
Author geebz Posted October 27, 2004 Author Posted October 27, 2004 based on what I told you.... she's digging me? i may sound stupid.. but i just dont want to look too deep into it.
Jilly10340 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 No one asks you those kinds of questions without being into you. If she sees you as only a friend then that's just weird. I could really care less what my "friends" look for in a girl or what their ideal date is. I mean, come on.....
Author geebz Posted October 28, 2004 Author Posted October 28, 2004 ya, you're right.. nuff said.. doin' it up tomorrow... i'll let yas know how it goes....
sami Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 How long you'll be waiting for her to keep digging on you ???????. I just can't understand.
UCFKevin Posted October 28, 2004 Posted October 28, 2004 Her interest will be lost if you don't act soon. Do it. I did it. It went splendidly. Think of it this way. If you go for it and it goes well, you'll feel stupid for waiting. If you do nothing, you'll regret it because who knows what could've happened? If it goes badly, oh well, life goes on, then it's awkward. Deal with it. You're a senior in college.
Author geebz Posted October 28, 2004 Author Posted October 28, 2004 this only started a week ago exactly today.... i'm taking care of it...
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