Aveenolover Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I had been "talking" to a guy since oh, january. Mid Jan. (i wrote about him in the last thread i created. long distance guy) I met him online on WoW. We were in a 10 man raiding guild and the guild leader was a chick. We started talking and ended up admitting we liked each other a lot. And we decided he'd come up to visit me feb 22. Well, a couple weeks after we started talking, he got a DUI. (douche) I dismissed it. he made it seem like he was barely over the limit and i was stupid and went along with it. A little after that, he stopped talking to me as much. and went distant on me. i didnt know what i did wrong or what happened. Then, he magically appeared again. about a month later. Everything was going good. we decided he'd come see me april 2nd-sh. He'd text me every morning and everynight. talk about making love to me. Everything was going...great then BAM disappeared about a week before he was going to see me. I was upset, and again had no idea what happened. But started getitng angry. thats when i made my post on here and everyone said to move on so i tried. i started dating local guys but i was still hung up on him. THen, april 23rd, he texted me. Told me he missed me and he screwed up really bad. Said he "was so scared by how much he liked me and the distance made it worse". But this time he wante dto make it work. So.......we decided I would drive to HIM may 26th. He kept talking to me. Goodmorning every morning, goodnight every night. Kept telling me how much he liked me. I went down there on the 26th. Everything seemed so sweet. He kept smiling at me. Wouldnt stop smiling. First day, we went out to eat at a mexican restaurant and he told me his cousin was in town and he'd like me to meet him. I wasnt ready yet since i had just met him, though. Got back to his place and watched movies. Then Cuddled. Then he kissed me. Then he...went down on me (even though i was like no wait dont ! and hes like dont worry, i wont do anything...but did it anyway. whatever) and then i said i wanted to have sex but he was like, "no no i'm not going to have sex with you on the first night. i like you way too much. i like you a lot more than i thought i would. i think i like you a lot more than you like me" next morning, he woke up early and instantly had sex with me. Blah Blah Blah. i came back on wednesday, the 29th. Everything was going great. he kept telling me how much he liked me. and kept trying to get me to tell him i loved him. (hinting ish. would randomly be like, "did you just tell me you loved me?" even though i didnt even almost say anything that sounded similiar) We planned on him coming down to see me july 13th. A week before he started acting weird. distant again. and thats when he said he couldnt come up because he still hadnt gotten his license and he was getting his daughter back on sunday instead of wednesday. Then, that wednesday, the 9th i think? last day he talked t me. ignored my text on friday. Ignored me message on facebook last tuesday. For no reason. I didnt understand. I was crying. I was so hurt. SO i was like eff it. I'm going to play wow tonight. i'll get my head off that guy. Got on. And the guild leader girl messaged me and was like, "hey have you heard from John*? and i was like no:-/ he has been ignoring me for like two weeks now. and shes like hmm. then she asked if i went down to see him and i said yeah, things went really well and now hes not talking to me and she goes, "thats exactly what he did to me, too" and i was like wait...what??? he told me he never met anyone else from wow! and shes like yeah. hes a liar. I went down and visited him april 29-23rd (date sound familiar?) and i was like are you kidding? the 23rd was when he started talking to me again!! we started talking, and found out he has a ROUTINE. he treated us the exact same. Took us for mexican. told us about his cousin. took us home. watched movies->cuddled->kissed->went down on us even though we didnt want it->refused to have sex with us cuz he liked us "too much" ->instantly had sex with us in the morning. I came home and he instantly messaged me. Told me he missed me then asked, "do you even like me?" which i thought was really weird because i made it so obvious i did. She told me, "yep. did the exact same thing to me" He lied to me about EVERYTHING. literally. everything. He was a COMPLETE. LIE. I'm done crying about him. But now i'm just mad. And i want to vent.
Author Aveenolover Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) Oh. And after i visited him, he told me how i was "pretty much his gf" and he would make it official in person. Yeah. Same thing to her. Also. i meant she visited april 19-23rd** Edited July 23, 2013 by Aveenolover
Treasa Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 1. Don't ever fall for any of your guildmates. 2. Don't get too involved in the lives of your guildmates. 3. Find a guild of adults who have older children. 4. Don't let a guy go down on you if you aren't comfortable with it. 5. Don't talk to this jackass ever again. Find a new guild. This love triangle drama isn't worth it.
Author Aveenolover Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Oh i know. It was my first time--and i had been playing wow for over 6 years. I fell for the whole fantasy. And i already planned on not talking to him ever again. I'm not sad about anything....just angry. lol. I just wanted to vent and others know there are douchebags out there
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