csuu Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 It's been just a little over three months since I began no contact with him. Just when I was about to confess my feelings for him he decided to go with another girl that confessed to him first. I soon realized when thinking about the excuses he gave to me that he's a complete flirt and a player when it comes to love and relationships. So he wasn't worth fighting for when I had more important things to do for myself. We decided to go no contact and try to restart our friendship later when we were both ready. Fast forward to now, three months later, I've made some valuable friends after moving to another city and rekindled friendships with friends that I haven't spoken with in quite awhile. I've also been running and hiking more often and just received a job offer to work for up to a year in another country starting in the fall! So life couldn't be more exciting! Anyways, last week I took a holiday to spend time in the city that he lives in to check out some of the hiking spots and hang out with friends. Before I left I broke no contact to send an email to him letting him know I was going to mail a book that he let me borrow back to his home while I was in the city (it would be cheaper since I would've had to pay international costs if I sent it from where I live). He soon replied suggesting that we get a quick coffee and get things cleared up when I'm in the area. He ended up being pretty late and asked me to go with him on the bus after the coffee so that we could talk more and I agreed to go. Most of the meeting he was talking about what he had been doing during the past three months, then asking me what my holiday plans were and if I'd ever be back in the area again. It actually really felt comfortable, like we were friends again. However, at some points he looked uncomfortable--like when he said he had been to the city I live in twice without telling me and after I told him my decision to work abroad in the fall. This kind of made me curious, but I decided not to question it and let it blow over. Anyway, didn't feel any sort of remorse or regret during the meeting, so overall I think it went well! (at least for me) I don't know what will happen next, but just gonna go with the flow
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