Ex sent this on my bday!

[Mws]

If you want to meet her, you can respond. But you need to keep your emotions under control, no matter what. Keep control of yourself at all times, and don't just act like you've got it together. Be that guy.

 

So what should I say in response? Im pretty good with keeping my emotions in check I want her to know I am somewhat interested but not too interested you know what im sayin. After 5 years with some one its a bit strange having to play the whole game again with them.

[daftpunk]

So what should I say in response? Im pretty good with keeping my emotions in check I want her to know I am somewhat interested but not too interested you know what im sayin. After 5 years with some one its a bit strange having to play the whole game again with them.

 

I'm afraid we can only make vague recommendations on how you should say something, not what to say. Especially not to someone you've known for 5+ years; she'd see right through it.

[Eddie Edirol]

So what should I say in response? Im pretty good with keeping my emotions in check I want her to know I am somewhat interested but not too interested you know what im sayin. After 5 years with some one its a bit strange having to play the whole game again with them.

 

I honestly think you shouldnt reply, OR meet up with her. Ive been through it, and seen it here too many times. I think she is looking for company with you because the guy she dumped you for didnt work out. Now shes looking for easy company because she doesnt have someone new to date. She dumped you once, there was a reason for it, 3 months later, I think she will do it to you again when she finds someone new. Do you want to be her 2nd choice? You want to give someone a chance that didnt think you were good enough? If youre gonna do it, you better make her jump through hoops to make sure she is serious about you this time. If you dont know the REAL reasons she dumped you the first time, you could wind up getting dumped again.

[daftpunk]

I honestly think you shouldnt reply, OR meet up with her. Ive been through it, and seen it here too many times. I think she is looking for company with you because the guy she dumped you for didnt work out. Now shes looking for easy company because she doesnt have someone new to date. She dumped you once, there was a reason for it, 3 months later, I think she will do it to you again when she finds someone new. Do you want to be her 2nd choice? You want to give someone a chance that didnt think you were good enough? If youre gonna do it, you better make her jump through hoops to make sure she is serious about you this time. If you dont know the REAL reasons she dumped you the first time, you could wind up getting dumped again.

 

It is entirely probable that you've seen it here too many times because this is the natural destination for those who are going through it. Anyone who has overcome the odds would have little use for this forum, and you'd never hear the tale.

[supaflyz]

Now that I have read it again I think one of the other poster is right. This don't sound like one of those "I really miss you" or "I still love you". She actually wants to meet up. Not a lot of people will have a chance at that? May I ask why she broke up with you? Did she found someone new or did she cheat on you? If its one of those then I don't know man.

[Mws]

Now that I have read it again I think one of the other poster is right. This don't sound like one of those "I really miss you" or "I still love you". She actually wants to meet up. Not a lot of people will have a chance at that? May I ask why she broke up with you? Did she found someone new or did she cheat on you? If its one of those then I don't know man.

 

We just broke up because looking back I wasn't takin care of my own life, understandable. She then met some one new. So why she wants to meet me is throwing me off. Thank you all for input.