Sythex55 Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I am kinda overweight but am not obise but just overweight and will any girls ever like me or if they dont is it becaus of the way i look in other words will girls not go out with me since im fat....
hulavie Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 I dated a voluptous guy some time back and I loved him because he was sweet and romantic, has a great sense of humor, shares the same interests with me like travelling, trying out new types of food, same tastes in music, enjoys battling out views on various topics with me, is open minded and a very patient listener... etc I am not making this up. I'm listing down my past experience because I want you to see that..... ..... a woman who makes decisions based on your weight is not worth your time. Show her your middle finger and walk away. ..... there's so much more to a relationship and that both parties expectations should be met.... this never happens fully, but surely two people should be able to meet each other on some level to be able to come together as an item. .... you need to love yourself fully and wholly and then you be sending out really positive vibes and attract the right women. My dear...... I speak for myself when I say that a man's character will outshine his looks/bank book/material possessions anyday. Good luck
sami Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 Some girls like fat boys. they just feel too good for them.
dontworry Posted October 27, 2004 Posted October 27, 2004 The first guy I ever loved was overweight, and I loved him more than anyone has ever loved anyone, lol. He was perfect in my eyes, funny, sweet, a little arrogant (but I later found out he was incredibly self-conscious and that was just an act - I loved that!) ...and then he broke my heart It took me about 8 months to get over him, I was inconsolable. Don't do that to some girl!!!! As a result of him, I can't settle for anything less than a belly!! If a guy is slightly overweight it just makes me want to grab him...I don't know why!!! My boyfriend now is really slim, I'm always trying to get him to eat hehehe cos I want a belly on him but I don't think it'll happen. But anyway I'm with him because I love him, no matter what he looks like. The other way round from your worries I guess! I know there has to be an attraction in the first place for someone to take a second look at you, but you have nothing to worry about. When me and my ex first met, it was because my best friend introduced us. He was hilarious and silly and within five minutes I swear to god I'd fallen in love with him. We ended up just chatting at that party til 7am, and I really knew I'd met someone incredible. So don't worry - keep your head high and enjoy life and a girl will come along. If you let this worry eat away at you then you will lose all self-confidence, you will walk along with your head down and nobody will look at you - NOT because you are overweight, but because you aren't standing tall and not caring what people think. I don't know what I can say to ease your worries. When you find someone you love, their looks really, really don't matter. I know it's a cliche but it's really true. If they have minor imperfections (like everyone obviously) then they only serve to endear that person to you, not to put you off. Good luck!
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