PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 So my ex recently told me shes with someone else, and this is after I dropped her stuff off to her house, and wrote her a letter. We havent been together since 2 weeks and were dating for 1 year.Even though a few days prior to that she told me she needs "time" and that she doesnt wanna date anyone right now. Can she being lying to make me leave her alone? Its been 4 days since that happened. I hope and pray shes lying but at same time I wish I had her back.
NiceFails Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Why are you doing this to yourself mate, even if she is lying, she will see new people eventually. I know it stings and is just as bad as getting knocked down by a shovel. But in my opinion I think you should expect the worse in this situation and deal with it that she is seeing new people.
Author PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 I know I should expect the worst but its quite hard to just not get that out of my mind. Its sad that she can be lying about that because it is killing my mind. I know I couldnt move on after 2 weeks.
NiceFails Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Think about the guy's misery when he finds out her bad side...
ForeverHopeful1 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Why did your relationship end? It sounds like she is trying to get revenge for something you did to her while you were a couple. "Now it's my turn. Im with someone else." So, I'm guessing you had your turn with someone else, now it's her turn with someone else. If you cheated on her, and had your turn, you deserve nothing nice or sweet from her. She could be lying. She might not be. What if she met him after telling you she wouldn't be dating soon? Either way, it's not your business anymore. She is entitled to date who she wants, when she wants, because it is her life and you are not together. I am sorry you're hurting and forgive me if I misunderstood here, but it sounds like retaliation at its finest.
NiceFails Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Who ever she will hang out with. Don't be intimidated, who ever she is seeing or is going to be with is not better than you in fact nothing as "The one". And one day whoever this guy is, he will experience what you are experiencing right now dude. Just give it time.
Author PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 No I never cheated on her at all. When she said its her turn is to give me my stuff back that I left at her house, see because I gave her stuff just a few days ago along with a letter explaining how I love her a lot. We broke up because she said she didnt trust I could change because I have trust issues, yet at the same time she has anger issues. She told me shes with someone else just an hour after I dropped her stuff off at her house. I even asked my best mate to text to her ask her if its true and she responded to him "I dont have to tell you jack ****". I know I shouldnt care but at the same time I love the girl so much
Author PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 I know. I need to accept it. But at the same time dude I cant get over her. I asked the girl to marry me and everything. She likes to play mind games. Right after we broke up she said she needs time and doesnt wanna date. But now she pulls this crap. It messes with my mind.
NiceFails Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I know. I need to accept it. But at the same time dude I cant get over her. I asked the girl to marry me and everything. She likes to play mind games. Right after we broke up she said she needs time and doesnt wanna date. But now she pulls this crap. It messes with my mind. Man, you were just about to marry a future cheater or just a player...
aloneinaz Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I'm assuming she left you. If she did, she could of been unhappy and was emotionally detaching herself for weeks or months before ending it. This make it easy for them to date that much quicker. As hard as it is being so fresh, you need to disappear from her life. Go strict no contact. She clearly lost interest in you and wants to date others. Why pine for someone who doesn't want you? Read posts here about how to get over her and move on w/you life.
Author PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Why do you say shes a player? We were with eachother for almost a year. And through the relationship she seemed really happy with me.
NiceFails Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Why do you say shes a player? We were with eachother for almost a year. And through the relationship she seemed really happy with me. Well, to be honest she just threw you away like that. And from your previous post she likes to S%%t test you a lot. That's bad. Let aside the one day break up next week a new girl.
Author PadawanJedi27 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Yeah youre right. Even if she was losing feelings I don't see how she just threw me away like that. I gave this girl everything, and i guarantee whoever she is with won't give her everything I did. Going from one relationship to the next isnt healthy at all.
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