Gypsie Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 There was this guy I was dating for a while things seemed ok. But around the third week I felt as if things were dying down a bit. The forth week I had only gotten two texts and never got asked out. I caved and sent a text saying "hey wanna hang out at my new place tonight?" I had just thought he would have been keen to see it. But said he wanted to stay at his and watch the cricket. I felt like he was not interested and never responded. Fast forwarded 2 weeks of no texts. I finally end up saying we have not seen each other in ages. I guess this is over. Enjoyed spending time with you all the best of luck. He replies a day later saying he thought I was over it after the last text and never sent a text back cause I did not reply to that one text. Then went on about how he had enjoyed spending time with me as well. I said I did not reply because I felt that you were not into me. I had no idea he was thinking that or else I would have sent one. I mean we had not seen each other I. 2 weeks and he had not sent a text the week after that at all. Am I reasonable in thinking that? Just so confused! Not sure what to think.
Author Gypsie Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Forgot to add that I had made plans with him the week before The week I got nothing. I just thought that I should not have to be the one initiating all the time from that moment on hence why so took a step back a bit then realised I got nothing when I did. So when he did turn me down after not seeing me a week. You can see why I thought he was not interested.
sdraw108 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I'm sorry to say, but he's not that interested - he can take it or leave it. This is obvious from the fact that he blew you off after not seeing you for a while, with a lame excuse (cricket?? I will never understand men who are willing to choose watching a sport game over being with their girlfriend), and then "assumed it was over" because you didn't reply to his text! There's no way that someone who was interested would simply give up because he didn't get a reply to a text. That's one of the weakest excuses I've ever heard. 2
hoping2heal Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 He's not interested in you. I agree with the other poster; he can take it or leave it. Depending on what you're "offering" he may take it, but he's not actually interested in a relationship with you.
mortensorchid Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 He's not interested enough to meet you. Move on.
CherryT Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I agree with the other posters. He's not interested at all. Men are pretty simple: when they see something they like, they'll generally go after it. Even if they're shy, they would've accepted your open invitation to hang out. Move on.
Author Gypsie Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 I like how he tried to turn it around and say that I was the one who lost interest as well. Sent a text back saying I did not buy it. I tried being honest with the guy from the beginning and still got the same ****! Least I saw it now and not 6 months later. Learnt not to chase anyone anymore and wow sitting back and seeing if they make an effort or not really does show you what their real intentions are. Wish I had played it this way when I was younger I would have saved myself a whole lot of hurt. Live and learn.
Author Gypsie Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Why agree not to see other people then act like this though?
forgetmenot75 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 There was this guy I was dating for a while things seemed ok. But around the third week I felt as if things were dying down a bit. The forth week I had only gotten two texts and never got asked out. I caved and sent a text saying "hey wanna hang out at my new place tonight?" I had just thought he would have been keen to see it. But said he wanted to stay at his and watch the cricket. I felt like he was not interested and never responded. Fast forwarded 2 weeks of no texts. I finally end up saying we have not seen each other in ages. I guess this is over. Enjoyed spending time with you all the best of luck. He replies a day later saying he thought I was over it after the last text and never sent a text back cause I did not reply to that one text. Then went on about how he had enjoyed spending time with me as well. I said I did not reply because I felt that you were not into me. I had no idea he was thinking that or else I would have sent one. I mean we had not seen each other I. 2 weeks and he had not sent a text the week after that at all. Am I reasonable in thinking that? Just so confused! Not sure what to think. You're confused because he let you wondering. He's not interested. If he were, he would made it clear, he wouldn't let you wondering, he'd pursue you to meet him again despite everything. You need more clues?
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