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I will try and make this brief. My gf and I dated for a little over a year. In April she told me she was going to India for 6 mo to volunteer to teach English, and that she was leaving July 1st. I broke up with her at the time she told me but was given a huge guilt-trip about not supporting her. She said she did not eant it to end. So I stuck around, but things were different from that point on.

 

Then the closer the time came to leave she said "if i am gonna be there, i want to be there." Well, read between the lines! Resentment set in for me and I was very confused at this point. Anyway, we agreed mutually that it was over. One of the issues we had was poor communication. Mostly my fault.

 

Well the night before she left she text me to ask if she called if i would want to talk. I asked her if that was a good idea and we went back and forth a couple of times, but that was it. We have not spoke in over a month. Well i broke NC yesterday and sent a very brief email. No mention of missing her and left it so that a response was not expected.

 

Well she replied and went on and on about how great she is and how she was meant to be there right now. (Oh ya she is in Australia until August 1st then India. No mention from her either about missing me or wven thinking of me. She did mention she missed baseball though. I really am now resenting her for stringing me along making it easier for her now in another country while I am here with all these things that remind me of her.

 

Her emaik was closed-ended as well. Anyway, just another reason NOT to break NC until you are fully ready because now I feel worse.

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She misses......baseball...

 

Wow....Okay?

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Right? Talk about a nice jab.

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Tell her about mlb.tv you can stream games anywhere.

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