bumbeblee Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 So , I am with a guy who is more than 10 years older than me , I'm 20. My parents do not agree at all with him , I actually liked him very much, but after my step-dad fought with him while he visited me one day, I no longer feel that this relationship is safe... He had several attempts to break up with me , but after few days he contacted me again , saying how much he likes me and bla bla... I am an immigrant, I came a year ago from europe..he is from europe as well but he already got his green card while I don't have it yet. My step-dad warned me that if this relationship will last, he will not gonna help me continue in this country and he will not gonna help me going to college and that my mother will be devastated...on the other side...I feel that this man is still loving me, I don't wanna hurt him or sth like that , but I also feel that sooner or later the final will be the same: break up .... they also said that I should get someone my own age but... this just happened to fall in love with someone older than me... Now , my parents told me to stop talking to him even on the internet... I secretly still talk to him on skype + i'll go to college and he wants to see me there, but I don't know if I can hide this relationship forever.... what should I do now? ....
Philosoraptor Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 You have to decide that if this man, who has already broken up with you multiple times, is more important than your family, school, and general stability. No one can make this decision for you, but all the pieces to make the decision are laid out infront of you. 1
Zahara Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I don't wanna hurt him or sth like that , but I also feel that sooner or later the final will be the same: break up ..... You've answered your own question. 2
Author bumbeblee Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 yes... do you think I can hide this forever?...
Author bumbeblee Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 You have to decide that if this man, who has already broken up with you multiple times, is more important than your family, school, and general stability. No one can make this decision for you, but all the pieces to make the decision are laid out infront of you. yeah...actually he told me that he feels in danger because of my step-dad who fought him but he also can't break with me that easily... lol...
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