Emilia Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 She updated her status last night, to something along the lines of "what you're seeing and how I'm coping are two different things, people only see their hurt" - something like that. I'd much rather she came and spoke to me instead of updating a status, but hey. It's best TST if she doesn't. You know that.
Author ToyStoryThree Posted July 30, 2013 Author Posted July 30, 2013 It's best TST if she doesn't. You know that. I do, I do indeed. 1
Eddie Edirol Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 How she's coping? Im calling it, shes holding a torch for someone. if it was a death in the family, she probably would have said so.
Author ToyStoryThree Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 So...we've spoken.. I decided (against my instinct) to contact her. Yesterday I sent her a message..ourely to see where it would go...it went like this: Me: Hey, how are you? Her: I'm fine, you? Me: I'm good, thank you You at work? Her: Yeah, I'm at work. Me: So, there's this nice little cafe I found on my lunchbreak, thought it'd be rude not to invite you to it, this weekend? Her: Sorry I wouldn't be able to come. Me: OK, cool - no worries. Her: Thank you for asking. Sweet of you to think of me. Me: You're welcome, there are a lot of beautiful cafes where I live so I just thought of you. So that was yesterday afternoon...then this morning, I woke up early and saw that she was online...maybe I shouldn't have, but I messaged her again. Me: Wow, so I'm not the only one awake! Her: Well I'm always up at this time for work Me: Lol, but I'm not *sad face emoji* - did you sleep OK? Her: Go back to bed then Yeah I slept OK Me: No more waking up at 4? (she was struggling with her sleep before) Her: Yeah I woke at 4. It's just stress and pressure. Me: From work? Her: From everywhere, Lee (I think this might have been aimed at me, I dunno) Me: Aw, you seemed a lot happier before, thought things were getting better? Her: No not happier, just coping. I've gotta go. Enjoy your day Me: Thanks, you too. So I don't know. She seems pretty bland. Maybe I shouldn't have messaged her this morning - I don't know. I don't think it was too much, I was just saying hey...we used to talk in the mornings all the time...
Author ToyStoryThree Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 How she's coping? Im calling it, shes holding a torch for someone. if it was a death in the family, she probably would have said so. I think she's into someone, too. And it clearly isn't me.
Emilia Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 So I don't know. She seems pretty bland. Maybe I shouldn't have messaged her this morning - I don't know. I don't think it was too much, I was just saying hey...we used to talk in the mornings all the time... This will damage you if you don't extricate yourself from it. You should take her off your contact list or whatever it is that she is on. She will eventually stop responding and that will start bugging you again. 1
Author ToyStoryThree Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 This will damage you if you don't extricate yourself from it. You should take her off your contact list or whatever it is that she is on. She will eventually stop responding and that will start bugging you again. I know this. I don't know why I messaged her....I gave her the appropriate space and I thought things might have gone a different way. To be honest with you - I've moved to a new area, and I'm going through a sort of difficult time with friends (unreliable, flaky etc) and just feel a bit...lonely. I think it's that which is swaying me to contact her... As a person, I do find it hard to just let go...
Emilia Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I know this. I don't know why I messaged her....I gave her the appropriate space and I thought things might have gone a different way. To be honest with you - I've moved to a new area, and I'm going through a sort of difficult time with friends (unreliable, flaky etc) and just feel a bit...lonely. I think it's that which is swaying me to contact her... As a person, I do find it hard to just let go... Understand. It's how I feel sometimes when I'm down. This thing might help to make new friends Find Meetup groups near you - Meetup 1
Author ToyStoryThree Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 Understand. It's how I feel sometimes when I'm down. This thing might help to make new friends Find Meetup groups near you - Meetup I'm glad I'm not the only one. Thank you Emilia. 1
ShiningMoon Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 This woman sounds like drama. It's drama written all over this future relationship. She doesn't even really know you and she starts crying in front of you? Please, if I were a guy, this would freak me out! Seriously, for your own sake, you should just let it go before she drags you down too! She clearly has emotional issues that only her can handle and deal with. You don't need drama in her life. This type of woman is never ready for real relationship. Go find yourself someone "normal" and simple! A relationship is supposed to be easy and fun, not drama filled! 1
Author ToyStoryThree Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 This woman sounds like drama. It's drama written all over this future relationship. She doesn't even really know you and she starts crying in front of you? Please, if I were a guy, this would freak me out! Seriously, for your own sake, you should just let it go before she drags you down too! She clearly has emotional issues that only her can handle and deal with. You don't need drama in her life. This type of woman is never ready for real relationship. Go find yourself someone "normal" and simple! A relationship is supposed to be easy and fun, not drama filled! You're right! And at the moment, I'm not feeling happy or like I'm having fun!
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