vyacc1 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Dated this girl for about 2 weeks. we had a great 2 weeks I knew she was dating other men and didnt care, but on the last night that we went out she wanted to have sex and i told her know because i did not want to have sex with someone that was having sex with other men. She said that she was having sex with other men but that they were just friends. I just said look i enjoy dating you and i really enjoy your company but i am just not doing that, but i dont think your wrong and your free to do what makes you happy. any way after that i stopped calling her for a week i was just kinda turned off. about a week later after not talking because she didnt contact me either. I called and we had a great talk. I decided to be her friend at that point. i tried calling another week later with no answer and no return call or text. waited a few days same thing. again waited a few more and she picked up. again great phone call, she was being kinda weird though about asking if i was dating i said i was but nothing serious, she said well geez thanks for keeping me in the loop. then said she was dating some guy her friends hooked her up with. I said great do what makes you happy. are talk was mainly about us being friends and moving forward because i do like her as a person it just didnt work dating. and this is what we talked about briefly. most of the talk was happy positive stuff. anyway tried calling 3 days after that and same thing no answer no text or call back. Was i wrong about somthing? is it wrong to want to be her friend? girls what is she thinking?
Philosoraptor Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 You stood by your beliefs and there is nothing wrong with that. She also seemed bothered by you dating others but had no issue dating and sleeping with people at the same time as dating you. Seems a bit hypocritical to me. 2
therhythm Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 You stood by your beliefs and there is nothing wrong with that. She also seemed bothered by you dating others but had no issue dating and sleeping with people at the same time as dating you. Seems a bit hypocritical to me. Yes... exactly the above... I think you dodged a bullet there. I have no problem with people casually dating but then the rule is open for both sides! If you are not comfortable with her having sex with other people you are just in your own right to move on and find someone with sexual values more align with yours. 1
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