Southern Cal Dude Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 If he KNOWS he has herpes and chooses not to disclose this information upfront, yes he is at fault. People have been criminally charged for not disclosing things like HIV to partners. So it seems the law sees it that way, too. Wrap it up folks. And you just agreed with me. I said he's a dirtbag. OP took no offense to anything I said.
CarrieT Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 My daughter did NOT like him. He tried to play with her and she shied away from him and wouldn't let him touch her. My child is NOTHING like that with anyone else. She is very bubbly and outgoing and stood behind me trying to hide the whole time. This is what stuck out at me. Please, please, please - in the future - do not subject your child to meeting a stranger. As you now know, there are too many crazy people in the world and this is a bad example to her. When/If you start dating via the internet, wait several months AT LEAST before you introduce your daughter to a potential new guy. Make sure that you have a man in your life that is not only worthy, but with whom you have a lasting relationship. 1
kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Yall ninjas toasting in a roll bread. Who meets someone after they admit to knowingly spreading disease? 1
TigerCub Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 When you're playing borderline Russian roulette with your health and know the risks, you are just as much at fault. No doubt he's a dirtbag, but so are the ones having casual sex with him. Let's say they caught herpes from him. How do you explain that to a future boyfriend? Maybe they wouldn't even disclose that to their future boyfriends because it is on both parties in a couple to get tested and if the boyfriends don't care about stuff like that, then they would be playing borderline Russian roulette and would be at fault if they catch anything.. no?
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Maybe they wouldn't even disclose that to their future boyfriends because it is on both parties in a couple to get tested and if the boyfriends don't care about stuff like that, then they would be playing borderline Russian roulette and would be at fault if they catch anything.. no? I don't know anyone who gets tested before having sex with a new partner. Most people(especially women) have casual sex(yes, FWBs count as casual). Reminds me of some girl I knew. She was a booty call for a guy. I knew he was sleeping with 3-4 others at the same time. He caught herpes likely from one of them and gave it to her. I told her she had casual sex and should have known the risks of sleeping with a player. You can't compare sleeping with a boyfriend with sleeping with a random. 1
TigerCub Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I don't know anyone who gets tested before having sex with a new partner. Most people(especially women) have casual sex(yes, FWBs count as casual). Reminds me of some girl I knew. She was a booty call for a guy. I knew he was sleeping with 3-4 others at the same time. He caught herpes likely from one of them and gave it to her. I told her she had casual sex and should have known the risks of sleeping with a player. You can't compare sleeping with a boyfriend with sleeping with a random. I've had boyfriends get tested before we go further, and definitely before unprotected sex. A FWB and ONS is definitely different and that's why it carries more risk.
Phantom888 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Herpes is a deal breaker. There is no cure. You will be suffering for the rest of your life because when it flares, it hurts and itches! I know people with that, and it's the worse thing ever. They have herpes dating sites so people with the disease can contain it within the group that already has it.
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