sandyyjan Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I am 47 working some 2000 KMs away since May 13. My wife who is 44 and daughter lives in the metro city. I visit very 3rd week. Earlier before May 13 also I was posted about 170 KMS at another station visiting on weekends. Last month I accidentally discovered some BBM on her Blackberry. BBMs are from one other man (OM) about 40 years. He came into her contact around 2 years ago on some business issue which subsequently got closed around one and a half year back.They might have met only once or twice. mostly it was online only. Perhaps they maintained contact thereafter. Both live in the same city and nearby only. He seems to be smart man with own business. The BBMs were as follows: Wife: Ping OM: hi Wife: At what time we shall meet OM: Come at 1730 hrs Wife: OK OM: Will I get a Kiss (Icon) Wife : It's crowded....will get late may be 1930 OM: Shall meet afterwords Wife: Going to US for a month OM: OK Shall meet when you come back We visited US, while in US, i discovered the following BBM: Wife: In Las Vegas... having fun ! OM: Good Wife: Vegas is a place to be visited with friends so missing you ! OM: Oh here I too missssss youuu soooo veryyy muchh ! OM You say Vegas is a place to be with friends; not good with family ? Wife: Yes, it will be much more fun with friends. OM: Oh lovely ! Wife Hi OM: When are you coming back Wife 17th June OM: Here it has started raining; romantic weather here ! After that I went to my place of work. Last time when i went i did not find any BBM. In fact old BBMs were also deleted. I am now confused wheter she is having an affair or it's just a friendship gone overboard. If it's an affair whether they had sex. Otherwise she is perfectly normal with me. She calls up every day. Kindly help me in finding some of these answers.
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