bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 (edited) Simple question Play Well - Can't Stand them -Somewhere In Between. Did you ever dropped someone because of this issue. And if it came to this would your s/o choose between you and them if its a valid issue you have of course ? Edited July 22, 2013 by bluegreen Clear Up
lissa90 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I think the worse thing you can ever do is ask a partner to choose between you and their friends. Those who ask and a partner who chooses..you know that relationship won't last and if it does, it'll be toxic. If you don't get along with their friends, the best thing you can do is be polite and friendly for the sake of the s/o. You don't have to spend one on one time with them so its no big deal.
Author bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 I agree with you up to a point of course but the question is half general half personal. In my last relationship for example one of the friends made me wanna throw up just by thinking of them. I made it pretty clear to my then s/o us being near each other was gonna happen when hell freezes over. So yes sometimes I agree its better to at least try be civil sometimes that's just not possible and if it comes to choosing I expect my s/o to stand by me as I would 4 them if they had same valid problem.
lissa90 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I think the worse thing you can do is make a big deal about the person you dislike in particular. If you really don't like him - then by all means avoid their company. Let your partner know you just can't get along with him but don't make your partner choose. Just because YOU can make that sacrifice doesn't me he will or should for that matter.
Recommended Posts