lexie20 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 ok well i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and he just started college at PSU..ever since he started i have been really worried the he will find someone else...so heres what i did. I sent him an email pretending to be a girl interested in him, i told him i thought he was really cute and that i wanted to meet him and replied and said yes he was interested and would like to meet me.. WHAT DO I DO KNOW?? I feel awful that i did that but know i feel like i can not trust him i kind of want to confront him about it but he would probably turn it around somehow and get mad at me! WHAT do i do?? help??
Jilly10340 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Well, while it's always a bad idea to set yourself up like that, he shouldn't have responded that way. I'm not sure I would trust him either. You could also pretend and play along and ask questions like does he have a girlfriend and stuff. See how much of a dog he really is...
bluechocolate Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 What a dumb thing to do. I guess you realise that now. If you don't trust him then end it or talk about it. You don't set him up in some kind of entrapment bullsh*t & then play the victim. probably turn it around somehow and get mad at me Now you've got two things to deal with - him answering to meet this phantom girl & you testing his loyalty in such a deceitful manner. We reap what we sow. The right thing to do is to come clean, otherwise you're never going to get beyond it.
suggestions2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by lexie20 ok well i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and he just started college at PSU..ever since he started i have been really worried the he will find someone else...so heres what i did. I sent him an email pretending to be a girl interested in him, i told him i thought he was really cute and that i wanted to meet him and replied and said yes he was interested and would like to meet me.. WHAT DO I DO KNOW?? I feel awful that i did that but know i feel like i can not trust him i kind of want to confront him about it but he would probably turn it around somehow and get mad at me! WHAT do i do?? help?? Either he knows that it's you, or he's trying to play both sides of the fence. I say go to meet him and find out what he thought. Ask him how he really feels about his transitioning, you have to accept his answers. Tell us what happened!
Barby Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I agree w/ blue chocolate but now that you've done it you should ask him like the other poster said, about his personal life, see what kind of bull he feeds you, then on the "meeting day" print out the emails and go and meet, and confront him that way he'll know he can't get out of it and if he gets mad...........well you knew what could happen.
Naive Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 You knew what the outcome could be of you doing that, now you have to deal with it and confront him.
Naive Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by Jilly10340 At least now you know. Exactly
DJ_Dork Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Can't you test him like how other girls out there test me and other guys? I guess you have to do this then.. since you started just wait to see what he says , etc.
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