lemoncheetos Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Hey Everyone I hope all is well. Long story short, there is this female I work with who is in her early 20's and I am in my later 20's. This particular female is very personable and gets along with everybody. She is very classy how she handles herself and yes she is drop dead gorgeous but her personality is incredible and that is a one in 500 plus find as I have noticed. At work she seems to get a lot of attention from the guys of course because she is the most gorgeous one there. Through the course of a few months when she emails me for work related topics she will always toss something in the mix like an emoticon or a slick comment. Nothing that stands out like a soar thumb. We never really had a chance to get to know each other on a more personal level because I am not always in the office and in the field working with clients. The other week I had to stop into the office to get some paper for a client of mine and I was dressed in shorts and a nicely fitted shirt that...well shows my figure. I had this weird feeling that she was taking extra notice to me but she tried not to make it obvious. Anyways when I was walking from one room to the next I had a weird feeling that she would "happen to be walking by me at the same time" because she heard me coming around the corner. Sure as hell my intuition was right. As I was walking around the corner with the documents in my hands as I was looking down at them I almost ran into her but we both slowed our pace. My eyes were on the documents that were in my hands in front of me about waist high, so naturally I looked at her slowly toe to head and back down slowly and she definitely knew I was checking her out. Anyways, my client came into the office and she leaves. It is not standard that she will announce that she is leaving of says goodbye as she never has and does not to because it is not part of her job. When I get done with my client and I go back to my desk which is on the other side of the building I see a not on my desk from her that says "Have a great weekend (my name)" with a smile face on it. I also found out that she recently got into a relationship with another guy but she seems to be the loyal type but I am a little confused by her tactics. I have played allot of head games and I am not too sure about this one. Maybe I am getting too old to see between the lines. I should also mention that one day a couple of weeks ago she did a favor for me that involved lots of paper work as I requested her help. That same day I was on my way back to the office and I called the office and she answered the phone naturally as that is her job and I said "hey I am on my way back and I was thinking of you... I am on my way to get some ice cream and was wondering if you would like some?" Yes I did pause for a second to implement an idea in her head and I am sure she got it. She said yes and told me she wanted Vanilla and then I said "Oh you are one of those girls" "vanilla is boring, I though you would have gone for chocolate of Reese cups or something like that". She just giggled. Later that evening after work I received an email and she said "thank for the ice cream, and just so you know I am not that boring" with a wink face emoticon. My focus is the letter she left on my desk. She went completely out of her way across the office and left me a hand written note out of the blue. I do not know how to take it. Your insights would be helpful.
Philosoraptor Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 She seems interested. Are you for sure she is seeing someone or was it just word of mouth by someone else? Ask her out and see what happens? Worst she can say is either she is seeing someone, or no. At least you'll get all your questions answered and you might get a nice date out of it.
salparadise Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Well, it seems pretty obvious that she's interested. The question is whether she's involved with someone, and if so, to what degree. If she has just started seeing someone then perhaps she's either not exclusive or doesn't see it going anywhere. I think the thing to do is a) find out what the situation is, and b) let her know that you'd be interested, but only if she's free and clear. Buy her more ice cream, chat her up, maybe surprise her by asking point blank if she's dating anyone.
Author lemoncheetos Posted July 25, 2013 Author Posted July 25, 2013 She seems interested. Are you for sure she is seeing someone or was it just word of mouth by someone else? Ask her out and see what happens? Worst she can say is either she is seeing someone, or no. At least you'll get all your questions answered and you might get a nice date out of it. I had a hunch and did a quick check on FB. She never mentions him though. It appears it has only been going on for a few months a in 3. A friend of mine is thinking she might be the type to make her way around by the way she flirts with all the guys in the office. Even the old guys in their 50's and 60's. I think she is naturally a flirty person but she does not act trashy or dress trashy.
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