Pastypop Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Has anyone on here had their in-laws successfully break up their marriage? Did they get what they wanted? If you had children, how were things after the divorce? Did they try to turn your kids against you too? Did the divorce and visitation go like the ex-in laws planned or did it backfire on them? What were they trying to achieve by breaking up the relationship? If they are trying to break up the marriage, do they really care about their child and grandchildren? My in laws have caused so much trouble for us that I am thinking of calling it quits because I'm tired of the drama but, I don't think it's going to go down like they think it will. They want me to disappear forever and sign over my parental rights probably, however; I would be keeping the house and would be the primary custodial parent as I am more capable and a better provider than my spouse. This is a well known fact and can be proven in court. I think if this comes to pass, they will in for a bit of a shocker. Guess I was just never good enough to raise her grand kids but, doctors, teachers, child physiologists and my state of residence say otherwise. This whole situation with them just makes me so angry. Wish they would just go away and let me and my kids could live in peace.
Balzac Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 The only power they possess is that which you give them. Seems like a powerful portion of hate n blame onto them.
thomashome Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Yes, my mother in law is the one who is breaking up our marriage. I am currently separating with my husband and my son is with me two three days of week. After being with my husband/his family member, my 5y/o son talks weird things like "my dad is my dad, grandma will be my mom and you will be someone else's mom". I was shocked! My son said grandma told this... My mother in law is very controlling and since her husband passed away 10 y ago, I think she is fearful if she would have a lonely life. she wants all his four grown up kids around her all times, she lives with 48 y/o son (never married, no job), the second got divorced 3-4 year ago, the yongest was divorced twice already, my husband third (among four) will be ready for a divorce. My husband is a mama boy and so close to his mom. I think they all might not be able to have their own family because mother in law is still want to control her kids. I think she denies her kids are grown-ups
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