tattoomytoe Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 i really do not get it....although i have my theories as to why older men seem to be attracted to me....like: *they are older, more self confident *they have nothing to lose *i DO talk to anyone...so maybe that is miss leading *older men have Bigger bawls so they approach women more these are my theories. i am not a bad looking woman, i am only 25, and i look in my early twenties, so it is not that i look old, or am ugly....... i want younger(aka: near my age) guys to approach me and talk with me and ask me for my number! why does it rarely happen? and i do not hang out with old people, or in geezer haunts either. Any insights?
suggestions2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by tattoomytoe i really do not get it....although i have my theories as to why older men seem to be attracted to me....like: *they are older, more self confident *they have nothing to lose *i DO talk to anyone...so maybe that is miss leading *older men have Bigger bawls so they approach women more these are my theories. i am not a bad looking woman, i am only 25, and i look in my early twenties, so it is not that i look old, or am ugly....... i want younger(aka: near my age) guys to approach me and talk with me and ask me for my number! why does it rarely happen? and i do not hang out with old people, or in geezer haunts either. Any insights? The same thing use to happen to me, and I still get hit on. It's because you're too friendly and I was, or your very mature for your age. You have to nail guys right in the balls to make it obvious to them that look I'm not searching and don't even try to ask me. Sometimes woman like the attention, but trust me it's not good in the long run you know. So my advice is to tell them as soon as they try to talk what the deal is. But they might never stop trying to talk to you because that's just the way older guys are, they're more aggressive and confident to take rejections. It's not your fault that they always trying to talk to you so don't feel bad or like you're unattractive to your age. Guys at your age still aren't that mature yet. Keep looking up!!
Stone Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I am the complete opposite, guys my age always hit on me as well as older men, and I prefer the older men to hit on me instead, maby it's their approach, I don't know, I hate guys my age.
suggestions2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by stoneheather I am the complete opposite, guys my age always hit on me as well as older men, and I prefer the older men to hit on me instead, maby it's their approach, I don't know, I hate guys my age. Well then your problem is solved. If you like older men then go with it. : D
sami Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Go where? They will drag her right to their dark caves. Is that what you want for your friend from LS?
Stone Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I just thinik older men have a "better" approach then the yoyng guys, or maby it's just my area. All the youngins here suck. Anyways, tatto maby you are being to nice to them, If you see them checking you out and notice it I think they will follow thru, instead when they check you out look at them like a old perv and maby they will stop
CurlyIam Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I know your problem. It's about chemistry. And looks. Like the stuff you wear (more conservative skirts versus law cut jeans, etc). And something about vulnerability. Older men are crazy about younger, more vulnerable women. Young "lads" are more into bars and sexy tops and "sharper" attitude. My two cents, anyway.
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