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He said he wants to have babies with me on the first date


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We hit it off on the first date and then he told me he wants to have babies with me on that first date.

 

Should I be worried that he's too fast or he was just über excited about this

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Was it a joking tone or a possibility to be serious tone?

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And his criteria for making a child is based on... what, exactly?

 

What could his criteria be based on after a 1st date?!

 

To me, this say: He is careless about who he fathers children with...

Which is NOT an impressive trait in a man in my book. There are plenty of men who don't care who they father children with, and decide they want children with a woman after a first date.

 

They generally don't make the best fathers.... Or partners.

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It's better than him saying "It puts the lotion in the bucket".

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When I read the thread title, one thought shot through my mind....

 

"That mother****er stole my line!"

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Means he dosnt want to wear condoms during sex

On your third date

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Should I be worried that he's too fast or he was just über excited about this

I would be worried.

 

He doesn't know you. You don't know him.

 

He is projecting what he wants onto you.

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It depends how he said it.

 

Was it like "Oh ****! Your awesome! You should have my babies! :laugh:"

 

Or was it like...

 

:Deep gaze: "Will you have my babies?"

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Yeah... It wouldn't make me swoon that's for sure.

 

I wouldn't even profess love on the first date, let alone talk about having kids.

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Ask him if he has $250K in the bank because that is what it costs to raise a child. Tell him you'd rather he bought you a house instead.

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"He said he wants to have babies with me on the first date"

That seems highly impossible considering it takes the typical woman nine months! do you have a super vagina that makes babies like toast?

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We hit it off on the first date and then he told me he wants to have babies with me on that first date.

 

Should I be worried that he's too fast or he was just über excited about this

 

Ahhh....that's very bizarre.

 

I'm not a fan of people who move too quickly and fast forward the relationship, as generally something is off with them if they feel stuff like that is appropriate.

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It's better than him saying "It puts the lotion in the bucket".
Ha ha...my thoughts exactly.

 

It's a line guys use when they want to have sex with you so they talk about things like marriage and babies, to convince you to give it up.

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