idontknow98 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I broke up with her about 7 months ago and it was a big mistake. I asked her out again and she said no and she wasn't ready for it yet. She also said she didn't to be just friends or anything like that. Since then about 4 months has passed and she still continues to talk to me..even if its just brief and like once or twice every month. We have hung out a couple of times too. The reason I am asking this is, she doesn't talk to her other exes at all..but she still continues to talk to me every once in a while. Why would she do this?
SoulSoldier Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 It seems like she's trying to make sure she's on your mind--and it seems like she is. If she's already turned you down, that would mean she's not interested in a relationship with you. Therefore, you have three possibilities: (1) She's playing games with you (2) She wants to be friends or (3) She's changed her mind about the relationship and does in fact want to be with you. Personally, being a woman myself and given what you've mentioned, I'd go with (1). My advice would be to ask her again, point blank, whether or not she wants a relationship with you. If she doesn't, follow up with the friendship question. Regardless of what she says about being friends, you must decide whether or not friendship would be healthy for you. If it's keeping you from moving on, it's time to go NC and move on with your life. If it's not keeping you from moving on, be friends with her and date other people.
Author idontknow98 Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 Thanks! I'm not really interested in being friends with her, and I don't know why she would want to be friends with me. We had a serious relationship, so that would be kind of awkward. I'll think about it and ask her. We see each other often so maybe I'll pop up the question.
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