LosingHope0806 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Saturday I got off work to a bunch of hectic phone calls from well meaning friends. They had just seen my ex out and about with a girl whom he claimed he was not cheating on me with. I got irritated but I went ahead with my nightly plans of going to the movies. But low-and behold guess whom I saw there. Him with the girl (who was dressed up in everything even the heels.) Now for them to be "Just" friends its crazy to think why she would be dressed up going to a movie, but whatever. I was angered and texted him only to be ignored until the wee hours of the morning to inform me that it wasn't a date and other bull ****. I continued to text him out of anger, and even demanded an apology for being lied to and treated like ****. He gave me a half ass apology.... that he honestly did not mean and then ignored me. ....that relationship is well over and maybe I don't need him. But I do sadly still want him. BUT I did ask for things back from the relationship...picture frames, cologne that I had bought, random knick knacks that were memorable for us because I refuse for him to reuse them for his new girlfriend or his ex-wife. Was that childish?
Philosoraptor Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 It's debatable if it was childish, but your motives and actions surely aren't going to help you move on or heal. What you want is the familiarity, not him. Well, unless you want to be with a cheater who treats you poorly. He took off his friendly mask and now you see the person underneath. That's not the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Cut the contact, block him in every way possible, tell your friends not to say anything about him as it is detremental to your healing, and start taking care of yourself so you can move on.
youngnlove89 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 The whole point about moving on is being a better person. Being a stronger person, wiser, more mature, dignity and pride intact. The way you acted showed you are a wreck and you don't have your priorities straight. You are flocking like a disturbed pigeon begging for breadcrumbs! Get yourself back together sweetie! Let him keep the materialistic stuff, demand for your heart back in a different way: through class. Show some respect for yourself. Chin up my love. 1
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