simplybrill Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Slept with the ex 3 weeks ago, and now we're both not talking to one another. I dont want to get back together, and now I dont think he does either, this is all probably a good thing, but I have the sneaking suspicion that he'll try to contact me soon, wondering where I've been. I guess it all comes down to me standing up for myself and not letting him have his way. If he truly loved me, he would have broken up with this "new girl he doesnt care about" before he slept with me, right? I really feel horrible about it, because its not like I go around sleeping with other people's boyfriends, and I would be mortified if she ever found out about it. Out of respect for her he should not have done the deed with me ( even if he doesnt like her that much), and I should have thought about having enough respect for myself (and her too), and not gone through with it. I definitely regret it, and I think he probably does too, seeing that he hasn't really called me since it happened. I thought I was past the days of falling for his lines! But I guess I did, all over again when he kept saying he loved me, every time I talked to him and everything felt like we were back together...but there was still this girl in his life...who he wouldnt let go of. I guess it is true, guys will get it whenever they can, from whoever- its an avaliability thing, rather than a caring thing. Well Im not going to be availiable for him any more!
hulavie Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I thought I was past the days of falling for his lines! But I guess I did, all over again when he kept saying he loved me, every time I talked to him and everything felt like we were back together...but there was still this girl in his life...who he wouldnt let go of. I guess it is true, guys will get it whenever they can, from whoever- its an avaliability thing, rather than a caring thing. Well Im not going to be availiable for him any more! well said. I support you in "not being available to him" anymore! Even if he comes back begging, you think hard for yourself whether he is worthy to be given another chance..... which might end up leaving you hurt all over again. Be strong!
fredrolin Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 these things happen. When I was in my 20's I was in a relationship with a girl for several years before we broke up. During the 2 years after our break up we both dated and had sex with other people but kept hooking up, hanging out and having sex during and/or between other relationships with other people. Eventually we both found the right person and broke it off for good.
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