Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 ......Will this create a paradox? Because I AM dating someone who's dated interracially, however, the interracial person is me, and I'm already dating him. Ugh, I feel like this is akin to typing Google into Google and having the internet blow up. Lmao, that google sh!!t made me LoL.
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 (edited) I mostly date interracially since I don't really like white girls (though, if a hot one likes me, I'm down ).Are you white? And what race of girl do you like the best? Also, nice little racist post you have here. If someone wrote this about black men, you would flip out and report it to the mods.Racist post? Oh brother Look, I dont see how its racist to point out an honest truth about what Ive seen and heard regarding peoples feelings towards interracial dating. I singled out White men, Asian men, and Black women, not only because I see them do the almost all of the complaining...But also because Ive had White women, Asian women, and Black men personally say to me that they've gotten crap from those people the most when it comes to their dating choices. And if someone made a post about black men disliking interracial dating, Id say thats not really my experience. Id share the fact that most brothers dont care, but that there are a few who are idiots and talk crap if a sister wants to date a white dude. Its rare that Ive heard them gripe, but I do remember hearing a few whine before in the past. Edited July 22, 2013 by kaylan
tomtucker Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Are you white? And what race of girl do you like the best? Yes, I'm white. I prefer Asian women the most (based on looks and personality), but I find black and hispanic also very attractive (mostly based on looks). I find that most white women aren't very attractive once they take their makeup off.
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 Yes, I'm white. I prefer Asian women the most (based on looks and personality), but I find black and hispanic also very attractive (mostly based on looks).Hmmm, I did have an asian phase once in the past. It was partly because I had never dated an asian girl at the time. So I wanted to try someone new. Plus asian women have very unique features that are very different from other women. I find that most white women aren't very attractive once they take their makeup off.Really??? Lolz, I dunno. For me it depends on the girl. I guess I just really surprised to hear a white guy say that. Only because most white dudes like white girls the best. Then again, Ive seen some photos of Kate Upton that made me want to shield my eyes http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m57kx9Mk7o1qzy531o1_500.jpg Strong 14 yr old boy mustache. Makeup and photo editing does wonders for people. Im sure they could make me look model sexy too.
mesmerized Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I have no problem with it whatsoever. In fact, they get a bonus point for being open minded! I tell you though that I know many white men who don't want a woman who has been with a black man before. It seems to be pretty common and I've even had men asking if I have had one or not 1
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 I have no problem with it whatsoever. In fact, they get a bonus point for being open minded! I tell you though that I know many white men who don't want a woman who has been with a black man before. It seems to be pretty common and I've even had men asking if I have had one or not Welp, Im about to shatter those guys dreams on the night I visit you in Canada. This is assuming you havent been with a black dude before. If you have, Ill save the air fare 3
Col1 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 The past is in the past. Who a person has dated, slept with, or married & divorced doesn't matter to me. Who that person is today (and future plans) is the most important consideration for me in deciding who to date.
tomtucker Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Hmmm, I did have an asian phase once in the past. It was partly because I had never dated an asian girl at the time. So I wanted to try someone new. Plus asian women have very unique features that are very different from other women. I also like their personalities and demeanors. They tend to be more laid back and more on the submissive side, whereas I'm on the dominant side (from my Jewish side) and somewhat high strung (from my Italian side). So we click very well. Really??? Lolz, I dunno. For me it depends on the girl. I guess I just really surprised to hear a white guy say that. Only because most white dudes like white girls the best. Yes, there are more guys out there like this than you think. MANY white guys I know prefer non-whites. I think black girls have the most trouble in this regard. I find black girls to be very attractive, but I don't know many other white guys that do (as opposed to Asians and Latinas, which are adored by many white guys). Makeup and photo editing does wonders for people. Im sure they could make me look model sexy too. There's a recent thread somewhere on this forum with a 70 year old Geraldo Rivera, both with makeup and without. Big difference.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I've dated more black men than white. My man knows this and honestly, he was put off by it in the beginning. It is no issue now, but I also did not understand why it mattered. *shrug*
KungFuJoe Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I've dated more black men than white. My man knows this and honestly, he was put off by it in the beginning. It is no issue now, but I also did not understand why it mattered. *shrug* LOL...you never heard the saying "Once you go black, you never go back."? I think that might have had something to do with it.
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 There's a recent thread somewhere on this forum with a 70 year old Geraldo Rivera, both with makeup and without. Big difference. Speaking of Geraldo. Geraldo Rivera Tweets Shirtless Selfie Oh lord, lmao
MissBee Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I always thought....humans date humans.....so unless they have dated and made out with an orang u tan or an inanimate object like their remote to their television, i wouldnt have a problem with a human male dating another human female in their past....it is one race....the human race.....i have dated interracially......not that i see i that way ...i date the guy not his ethnicity...deb Ditto. This never comes up for me. I never think about or ask if someone has dated interracially. I'm not American, but live in America, and generally date men from my culture; however, I've also dated American men and men are men. I am only usually curious about the youngest and oldest person someone has dated and sometimes, only because of my culture, does it come up in dating whether or not a guy generally dates American women or if I generally date American guys or not. However, it's not a racial thing and I don't care either way. Humans are humans and I am only concerned about you dating adult women and not children or animals, and I also would want to know if you've dated the same sex more than I would care if you've dated a human of another race.
tomtucker Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 LOL...you never heard the saying "Once you go black, you never go back."? I think that might have had something to do with it. Nah, its not that. While my most recent friends from college and post-college tend to either like other girls from other races or are another race themselves, I went to a predominantly white high school. The guys on my sports teams generally thought that any girl that dated black guys was HIGHLY promiscuous and generally off-limits for an LTR. It seemed that most people I knew back then felt that way. Since my friends in high school were average joes and my friends post-high school are generally above average (in everything), I feel like the average white guy believes what I stated above.
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 hmmmm.... where to begin with this? Stating all types of generalities, and stereotypes. Whites insecure, Asians mad, Black women mad. Can I see some statistics, or some form of empirical data to confirm these assertions? This question is ridiculous. Dont get butthurt at the thread. Plenty of black men on this forum or in real life will tell you the venom some black women speak regarding interracial relationships. Also, you can ask the numerous white women who have dealt with this issue when it comes to white men. Heres an example right under your post; I've dated more black men than white. My man knows this and honestly, he was put off by it in the beginning. It is no issue now, but I also did not understand why it mattered. *shrug*
KungFuJoe Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Nah, its not that. While my most recent friends from college and post-college tend to either like other girls from other races or are another race themselves, I went to a predominantly white high school. The guys on my sports teams generally thought that any girl that dated black guys was HIGHLY promiscuous and generally off-limits for an LTR. It seemed that most people I knew back then felt that way. Since my friends in high school were average joes and my friends post-high school are generally above average (in everything), I feel like the average white guy believes what I stated above. It was a joke. I really have nothing much to offer in this thread. I'm half white/korean married to a Mexican woman. 3
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 It was a joke. I really have nothing much to offer in this thread. I'm half white/korean married to a Mexican woman. Psssh, way to pick a Chinese martial art as your username. You should have totally picked a Korean one lol. Nah, its not that. While my most recent friends from college and post-college tend to either like other girls from other races or are another race themselves, I went to a predominantly white high school. The guys on my sports teams generally thought that any girl that dated black guys was HIGHLY promiscuous and generally off-limits for an LTR. It seemed that most people I knew back then felt that way. Since my friends in high school were average joes and my friends post-high school are generally above average (in everything), I feel like the average white guy believes what I stated above. Lmao, oh wow. Those guys are lame. Out of the white girls Ive slept with only 1 was rather slutty (in my opinion), two were virgins, and the rest were just average gals.
KungFuJoe Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Psssh, way to pick a Chinese martial art as your username. You should have totally picked a Korean one lol. . KungFu Joe was a black guy. You never seen I'm Gonna Git You Sucka? 2
Els Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Honestly, the only issue I could imagine ever having with this, is if they dated someone from another race, had a bad experience with that one (or two, etc) persons, then started blatantly badmouthing the entire race because of it. That speaks to a sort of blanket judgmental attitude that I don't care to have in a partner. Aside from that, really, I don't see how or why I would care. 1
tomtucker Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 It was a joke. I really have nothing much to offer in this thread. I'm half white/korean married to a Mexican woman. Nice. Mexican girls are HOT! 1
Author kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 KungFu Joe was a black guy. You never seen I'm Gonna Git You Sucka? Looooooong time ago. Keenen Ivory Wayans was a funny dude. I loved In Living Color back in the day. 1
ThaWholigan Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 KungFu Joe was a black guy. You never seen I'm Gonna Git You Sucka? I know Karate, Ninjitsu, JuJitsu.....and all other types of sh*t that you ain't even heard of. WAAAAAHHHH!!! oooooooooyoudon'tknowwhoyou****ingwith....oooooooo 3
bluegreen Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 I would and have dated fallen for Interracial man but I would NEVER go from dating Interracial to Dating Racist Man. First time he would have opened his mouth and I figured this is who he is he would have been History ...
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