NYCGuy22 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 It's been almost 2 months since my ex left me. Over the last couple weeks, I feel awesome. Working out...losing weight...eating right..becoming a better person. Then out of nowhere, I start getting that "pit" in my stomach again and start missing her and getting upset again. At what point do I start moving forward without these constant steps back. This has happened twice already. I just want to stop thinking about her and wondering if she thinks about me. Anyone else dealing with the same thing???
HeartBroken1988 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Yes I think we all have. It's been more than a month since she cheated/left me and while I have some good days, I have some real bad days too.. time is the key I guess.. we need to be strong and try not to look back! The best has yet to come
scorpio1978 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 In relationships where I have ended things or the other person has, I still find myself thinking of him or the relationship. There are reminders everywhere with each one of them. You will get to a point where you have had that pit so many times that it won't bother you anymore or you will have been exposed to reminders of that person enough to where they are not a shock. 2 months is not a long time. Usually, it's just enough time to have the realization set in that the relationship truly is over. People, though not all, tend to panic and miss what they had, etc. I don't know anything about your story, but relationships end for a reason. All in all, having the "pit" you speak of and the thinking of her is very normal. It will be less painful the more time goes by...
aloneinaz Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 It's normal NYC.. They get less and less as time passes. I don't miss my ex and even 7 weeks since the end and NC, I know that she's simply not right for me. I've been dating and am now seeing someone for a couple of weeks that I really like. It doesn't wipe away the 1.4 years of memories with my ex. I just accept that I will get "waves" of thinking about her and the fact that the relationship is over and recognize they are diminishing every week. It's normal to think about an ex and after only a couple of months, it's to be expected. Keep doing what your doing and date if you can. You'll meet someone else who you like and will soon forget this last ex.
catcher Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 completely normal. it happens to everyone. you cant detach from memories that quickly, it is normally what makes rebounds fall apart. it will get better!
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