Farough Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 hello everyone i make it short story i was with a girl for 4 years then i moved to another country to do my higher studies ,, and suddenly one day i woke up and i saw wow ,, she blocked me from her phone facebook skype and everywhere,,, that was all the contact we had through net,, we were talking to each other regularly so 1month i was begging the whole time and she was just replying go away from my life so we had no contact for almost 3months i called her for her birthday,,, we skyped and she said she never felt we are not together etc ,,, she said she wants to get back to me !! i love her so much and still i do so much !! more than anyone in my life so i easily accepted (huge mistake) she said her biggest wish is to marry me and wants to be with me forever a week passed and again she started ignoring me !! she told me she was in relationship for 2months she couldnt forget me for single second,, she said she ignored all her friends(boys) she cant talk to them also so i told her stop playing with my feeling,, she said she loves me so much (i am her first bf and all her family also knew we planned to get married ! so again she blocked me and i sent email and said i love you so much but i cant accept to have friendship with you she replied: go away from my life and i replied : ok i love you so much but if you think this is the best for you and me i accept the stupid thing is when i start no contact she sent me email ,, stupid emails like you dont love me ,,, or she says you hate me i dont know whats wrong? i love her so much i want to be with her but i dont know what to do? in 5months i will be back to the same city and she knows that(she always says when we meet we talk different even on skype she was talking totally different and showing love and affection so now whats your suggestion? i cant forget her not even single second after almost 4 5 months i want her back but i dont know how and why? what is the best for me to do at this situation? thanks
Chris516 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 (edited) hello everyone i make it short story i was with a girl for 4 years then i moved to another country to do my higher studies ,, and suddenly one day i woke up and i saw wow ,, she blocked me from her phone facebook skype and everywhere,,, that was all the contact we had through net,, we were talking to each other regularly so 1month i was begging the whole time and she was just replying go away from my life so we had no contact for almost 3months i called her for her birthday,,, we skyped and she said she never felt we are not together etc ,,, she said she wants to get back to me !! i love her so much and still i do so much !! more than anyone in my life so i easily accepted (huge mistake) she said her biggest wish is to marry me and wants to be with me forever a week passed and again she started ignoring me !! she told me she was in relationship for 2months she couldnt forget me for single second,, she said she ignored all her friends(boys) she cant talk to them also so i told her stop playing with my feeling,, she said she loves me so much (i am her first bf and all her family also knew we planned to get married ! so again she blocked me and i sent email and said i love you so much but i cant accept to have friendship with you she replied: go away from my life and i replied : ok i love you so much but if you think this is the best for you and me i accept the stupid thing is when i start no contact she sent me email ,, stupid emails like you dont love me ,,, or she says you hate me i dont know whats wrong? i love her so much i want to be with her but i dont know what to do? in 5months i will be back to the same city and she knows that(she always says when we meet we talk different even on skype she was talking totally different and showing love and affection so now whats your suggestion? i cant forget her not even single second after almost 4 5 months i want her back but i dont know how and why? what is the best for me to do at this situation? thanks She sounds like an online friend of mine. She accused me of ignoring her, when I re-installed Yahoo Messenger on my new computer in April 2012 after nine months of staying off YM for my emotional well-being. Then she accused me of treating her like a child. When I would be gone for only a couple hours, she would wonder where in the world I was. Her moodiness is just that, part of her personality. When she started accusing me of treating her like a child, I was putting my foot down, about the way she was treating me. Basically, You have to stop letting her play games. Edited July 21, 2013 by Chris516
Author Farough Posted July 22, 2013 Author Posted July 22, 2013 She sounds like an online friend of mine. She accused me of ignoring her, when I re-installed Yahoo Messenger on my new computer in April 2012 after nine months of staying off YM for my emotional well-being. Then she accused me of treating her like a child. When I would be gone for only a couple hours, she would wonder where in the world I was. Her moodiness is just that, part of her personality. When she started accusing me of treating her like a child, I was putting my foot down, about the way she was treating me. Basically, You have to stop letting her play games. Yes but how?
Chris516 Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Yes but how? Don't participate in her games. If she blocks you, that is her problem, not yours. Because, If you participate in her games, you will be allowing her to manipulate your every move, action, and thought.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 She is extremely immature and unkind. "Go away from my life"?? How old is she, 12? Really, she is not ready for a relationship. You're in for a world of hurt if you continue to tolerate this crap. She's showing you that she doesn't love you, but keeps you around to stroke her ego. That's why she keeps you hooked and plays the victim after she is rotten to you. You should NOT play these hurtful games with her; YOU are the one paying the price. Find someone who will treat you with respect, because she does not.
Author Farough Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 Don't participate in her games. If she blocks you, that is her problem, not yours. Because, If you participate in her games, you will be allowing her to manipulate your every move, action, and thought. thanks alot good advice
Author Farough Posted July 23, 2013 Author Posted July 23, 2013 She is extremely immature and unkind. "Go away from my life"?? How old is she, 12? Really, she is not ready for a relationship. You're in for a world of hurt if you continue to tolerate this crap. She's showing you that she doesn't love you, but keeps you around to stroke her ego. That's why she keeps you hooked and plays the victim after she is rotten to you. You should NOT play these hurtful games with her; YOU are the one paying the price. Find someone who will treat you with respect, because she does not. you are exactly right thank you
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