Sallygirl Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Hi everyone. Long story short, I ended things with a guy I work with a little over a month ago. I found out (after i ended it) he was also seeing someone else the entire time he was seeing me (although I asked him while we were dating and he said he wasn't). I ran into the two of them together the night I ended it, and they were all over one another. We had a really huge fight. That night I unfriended him from Facebook. About two/three weeks later I actually deactivated my account because I could still see some items that he was posting when mutual friends of ours would comment on them. It was too hard. Now, I think after only about three weeks, I am ready to reactivate my account. My question is if I block him, will he disappear completely as well as not be able to see any if my stuff. I'm still not in a position where I am ready to see his pics/updates, etc.
theonlyjuan Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 If you block him I don't think you can see his posts and he can't see yours. I think you can see what other friends say to him. I just took everyone who is incontact with my ex and un-ticked the show in news feed bit. That way I didn't have to block or delete people, although I don't use fb much.
Dread Pirate Roberts Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Hi everyone. Long story short, I ended things with a guy I work with a little over a month ago. I found out (after i ended it) he was also seeing someone else the entire time he was seeing me (although I asked him while we were dating and he said he wasn't). I ran into the two of them together the night I ended it, and they were all over one another. We had a really huge fight. That night I unfriended him from Facebook. About two/three weeks later I actually deactivated my account because I could still see some items that he was posting when mutual friends of ours would comment on them. It was too hard. Now, I think after only about three weeks, I am ready to reactivate my account. My question is if I block him, will he disappear completely as well as not be able to see any if my stuff. I'm still not in a position where I am ready to see his pics/updates, etc. If you unfriend and block him you shouldn't be able to see his page or see any of his posts unless they were already there previously. You wont be able to see any new posts. If it bothers you that much and you see an old post just hide it. He sounds like a real piece of work.
Talulah Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Tough one. One of my exes, I unfriended him, then slowly all our mutual friends (not friends with them anymore). Then, I blocked him and unblocked him. And then I unblocked him and promised myself to not look at his profile anymore. Deactivating your account for some douchebag is not worth it. If you are angry, then go out, take lots of pictures of you with guys and make one your profile picture, I did that once and it pissed the guy off.
Dread Pirate Roberts Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Tough one. One of my exes, I unfriended him, then slowly all our mutual friends (not friends with them anymore). Then, I blocked him and unblocked him. And then I unblocked him and promised myself to not look at his profile anymore. Deactivating your account for some douchebag is not worth it. If you are angry, then go out, take lots of pictures of you with guys and make one your profile picture, I did that once and it pissed the guy off. How come you were unfriending your mutual friends? How could they be friends in the first place if you can just stop being their friends?
Talulah Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 How come you were unfriending your mutual friends? How could they be friends in the first place if you can just stop being their friends? There were more his friends than mine. Except for one, whom lost my trust after that. So boom.
mano Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Yep. Just block him. U wont be able to see any of his posts. Nor his account. U wont see any activity even if he comes posts on a mutual friends wall. He would just b invisible to u.
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